Asking for sex... too AFCish??

[Mr_Pink]

I've decided I'm going to go all or nothing with my ex. I'm going to a party with her at the end of the month and I plan on outright asking her for sex. I'm gonna say something like "I don't want to leave High School a virgin, yet I don't want my first time to be with some random girl, and I want it to be with someone special that I'd remember". I'll probabley get slapped, but it's worth a shot. OR, is this whole approach to AFC-like and a failure from the start??

-Mr. Pink

 

[So pimp its scary]

What I'm going to suggest here will be abit more work for you, this approach is forward, and I would wager semi-afc. So, instead of straight asking her... what you could do is get together with her and bring her into a place where the two of you are alone and not to be bothered... you could make sure that the location is romantic (candles, clean, etc), and just bring her there while you guys are talking.

Just let her know that you think that she is very special to you, and that you would like to share a great intimacy with her that you've never shared with anyone else because you wer waiting for that person that you know that you wouldn't regret being with...

Also, give her a massage, a full body massage... for like ten minutes, before you go in and start kissing her from head to toe... just keep progressing... then back away briefly, go back to the massage, then keep going, if she tells you to slow down then back away a little bit and continue. If she says NO, then slow down again, keep making out with her, but NO sex.

Your approach isn't one that's doomed to failure, but it is less likely to succeed then something along the lines of what I'm suggesting... I would also recommend doing a search on the subject, in the DJ BIBLE, because others have made a much more thorough post on the subject.

Good luck.

PS. I'll be sending you that info tonight.

 

[Mr_Pink]

And I'll be waiting for it....

 

[icepick]

Uhh, unless you feel like ruining your reputation, don't do this. You could give HINTS up the ass, she WILL understand them, just don't blatantly say things like that.

Do the chickspeak, say things like "Jeez, I am horny!" or "I haven't had sex in forever!" with "What are you doing later?"

It is worth a shot at least.

 

[THA REALNESS]

No. You should never ask for it .Just do it.If she says no she says no.

 

[squirrels]

Question one: Why are you requesting sex from your ex?

As for your question, yes it sounds like the way you're approaching this is pretty AFC.

 

[Walden]

F*** it it's better than hanging your swingin' d*ck in the breeze , go for it!

 

[dbot]

hahahaha ^^^. Yeah don't ask for sex. Just start kissing and touching and let one thing lead to another. But don't say anything like "so uhh... wanna have sex?"

 

[Lost Savior]

I'd stay away from saying anything that resembles "Duh.... I really like you alot... Would you like to have sex with me please?"

*cringes*

 

[squirrels]

I'm reminded of that scene in American Pie where the guy says to the girl, "Suck me, beautiful." LOL

 

[b's nuts]

I don't know if you have read the gunwich theory or not, but MAKE THE HO SAY NO!

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by b's nuts
I don't know if you have read the gunwich theory or not, but MAKE THE HO SAY NO!

Gunwitch also says, and I quote:

"Don't talk about puke, ****, piss, ejaculate, death, your horrid job, her horrid job, illness, religion, politics, rape, child molestation, pornography, or SEX (yes that's right no sex talk, being sexual yet tactful with your words is what women call "subtle”, and as was mentioned, gets them thinking sexually EASIER than saying it outright)."

In other words, be horny, approach her, turn up the intimacy as she allows you to, but don't come right out and tell her you want sex, let alone ASK (beg) for it.