"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Asking for prayers...

Blue Phoenix

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Originally posted by leeman67
This is non related to our normal discussions. My sister n law has a large brain tumor. She is to have surgery Monday. They say this is going to be a very dangerous operation. We are asking for as many prayers as we can get. God bless everyone . lee
I just hope you're not a male attention wh0re making this up. :trouble:

Good luck to your sister! :cheer:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wyldfire

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I'll say a prayer for you sister.

Remember this...although any brain surgery can be very dangerous...the technology in the medical field has come a very long way.

Cancer surgery can be scary for the family who has to sit and wait. I've been there myself during my mother's struggle with breast cancer and an anyeurism. She went into surgery 3 times. Two of them were supposed to be dangerous and one was supposed to be routine. Ironically, both of the dangerous operations went quickly and without a hitch. The routine surgery went alright as well, but took longer when it wasn't supposed to. I think when the surgery is considered to be more dangerous, the doctors tend to take it more seriously and therefore end up at the top of their game, so to speak.

Things will most likely go really well for your sister tomorrow. My mother was very weak and sick when she had her operations, but she had the will to recover. Give your sister all the encouragement you can and talk to her about all the great things she has to look forward to once all this is behind her. Talk about specific things you would like to do with her or places you want to go together. Making sure she's in a positive frame of mind when she goes into this will go a long way.

Good luck and please let us all know how things went.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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