Asking for it...

[LadiesMan89]

I had a discussion with this girl I'm sort of with about a week ago about head. I asked her if she gave it, and she said she did. She assumed that I was sort of directing the conversation towards me bascially asking for it. She said that I shouldn't "expect it" from her. However, the last time we hooked up a couple nights ago, she was playing a little with my finger in her mouth a little bit. Next time we hook up, I'm considering asking for it. Should I? Or should I just let it happen at her pace?

 

[KontrollerX]

LOL, dude don't ask.

As you and her are beginning to get it on gently move her head down towards your soldier without saying anything.

 

[LadiesMan89]

Yeah but I like this girl a lot. We have a really strong connection, and before realizing how much we liked each other we were best of friends. Now we're starting to move towards a relationship. So I'm not completely sure if I should pressure her into it just yet.

 

[Distant Light]

OMG I'm assuming you don't dirty talk.

From the first sexual encounter, I'm going for head. If it's normal in your reality then it will be normal to the girl, always remember that.

I'd command for head and directly tell her to give me head. But the thing with you and me is that I use sexual inneundo and I talk about sex alot so girl's know from just 10 minutes of talking to me that I love getting head and busting on chicks. So it's always congruent when I say stuff like "Make this dik wet and suck me dry."

 

[PRMoon]

I dunno. Askiing for head is kinda like begging, which in turn is like handing power over to her. Now she's got something you want and she can hang it over your head and get things she wants. I would go about it the normal way. Usually if I bang out a girl just right she WANTS to show me gratatude by giving me head for the way i'm f*cking her...and some times to give her vagina a break from the pounding. Either way, we're both getting what we want.

 

[just so suave]

whats it

 

[sav]

before asking there are a couple things first have to have passed..

first, usually if the girl is comfortable with giving head, she'll do it without asking you..

second, if she doesnt just do it, go down on her then stop, start making out and see if she''ll return the favor..

third, if the above two didnt fly, direct her head to your member, she should get the hint..

if all else fails, just straight up ask for the favor fro step 2 be returned... if she gives you bull**** like "i dont do that" just **** her brains out.. just the next time dont go down on her.. she'll change her tune really fast as a lot of girls cant orgasm through vaginal penetration alone.. and for them its a lot more pleasureful


there's nothing wrong in asking direct, it all depends on the context, i prefer to try and do it smoothly..


hope that helps!

 

[sav]

or you can always follow some rappers advice (forget which one) who said

"just put it in her mouth... her mother****ing mouth"