How do u ask for a girl's AIM? like what do you guys do? Also when do you guys ask for it? I'm always sitting at a group during school and I don't really get the chance to do my thing with girls 1 on 1. I have no problem getting girl's phone numbers or AIM when I'm in a one on one situation like at parties and malls. But I just don't get how u do it without looking like a fruitcake at a table... maybe it's just in my head cuz I used to just ask my friend for all the screen names of hot girls so I guess I never learned how... so ya someone help please!
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Asking for girl's AIM?
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You can casually bring up a topic about something funny that you saw on the computer the night before.. and you could show her (and here is where you would subtly suggest her giving you her screenname) ... this usually works very well... Worse comes to worse just ask her straight out.. I don't see how asking for a screenname could make you a "fruitcake"....especially since girls usually NEVER deny anyone their screenname, unlike their #. Hope I helped good luck ;]
Woah slow down turbo.
You are over thinking.
Just ask for it, casually, and confidently.
Say it like you there is no possiblity of her denying you her screename/msn.
"You got AIM/MSN? Here write it down" then continue to speak about something else as you hand her a piece of paper and a pen.
Done.
You are over thinking.
Just ask for it, casually, and confidently.
Say it like you there is no possiblity of her denying you her screename/msn.
"You got AIM/MSN? Here write it down" then continue to speak about something else as you hand her a piece of paper and a pen.
Done.
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You don't want her AIM.
I know plenty disagree with me but asking for their AIM is pathetic.
You want her number.
Talking to a chick on AIM is a waste of your time.
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I know plenty disagree with me but asking for their AIM is pathetic.
You want her number.
Talking to a chick on AIM is a waste of your time.
The Muscly Jerk
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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I KNOW how to use AIM/MSN to get chicks I used to do it ALL THE TIME. I would usually get their AIM from friend then get their number through AIM and then call them and then go on a few dates before i do my thing. Now that I don't have that friend anymore my game was kinda thrown off so I was just wondering how to get the gir's AIM. Trust me I don't care how I talk to girls... personally I love talking to them one on one cuz I can see body language and reactions, but I don't mind using the phone or instant message cuz the END RESULT is what MATTERS to ME. O well thanks to the first 2 posters I just said "Your cool to talk to! Here write your AIM so we can talk later" got like 10 
Totally agree. Before I became a DJ, I used to ask girls for their MSN addys. They were much more willing to give you those. But the problem with this is, once you start talkin on msn, they put you in the friend zone. In fact, if you look at the girl's msn screen, your name will actually be on something called the "Friends" list.musclyjerk said:
Get a number. It's much more intimidating and spontaneous to call. Makes them feel special cuz you'd rather do that than hang around on msn. Plus you don't have to stay on the phone as much as you would stay on for an msn conversation, their obliged to say things so the convo doesn't get boring... I could go on for hours.
Aim MSN? Yea dude the advice about getting her number is way better. How would u feel if a girl asked for your aim or Msn? I'd feel like she was one of those people who stay on their computer all day. Phone # comes off more as someone who actuallys likes to talk.
Your all f*cking newbs/AFC please stop giving your opinions. I asked for ADVICE not your f*cking BS inexperianced sh*t. Wow are u kidding me they put u in the friends-zone when you talk to them on MSN or AIM... sry chumps but it's not what you USE to talk to them it's HOW U TALK TO THEM. I already stated that I use AIM/MSN to get to know em better before I get their number and f*ck them. So ya if u don't believe me read David Delangelo he uses AIM.
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You sir is wrong. It doesn't matter if u use phone, face to face convo or instant messaging if you don't know how to talk to them u'll end up in the friendzone anyways cuz she won't feel attraction. Who pays for DD anyways? it's all over the place and u can download it for free and personally his advice is WAY BETTER than the DJ bible.Raikojo17 said:
all you do is be like do you have and AIM if they say yea ask them what it is but you really shouldn't be getting there aim you should be getting there number def . if your already hanging out with them in person, but i can understand certain situations asking for her AIM can be good like say on myspace ( you all probley will say what are you doing talking to girls through myspace but this is high school almost 3/4s of every high school has one and a lot of times you talk to someone from your school on there before even meeting them ive done it a lot of times with girls at my school and hooked up with most of them.)
Calm down. You came here wanting to know how to ask for it, and now you're acting all ****sure and arrogant. If you can be so confident to talk to them over msn/aim, why can't you ask them at a table?CCKazi007 said:
No use getting angry here, if you're going to be a prick to people, no one's going to want to help you.