Asking for full body pics - OD users only

[BeTheChange]

One for my Tinder brethren!

I've had situations where girls have posted a limited number of photos with few or no body shots and/or baggy clothes and it turns out they've still been quite hot. I've also had times when they've done this and been chubbos. For me being fat is worse than being ugly. Can't stand it. Where that has happened I've promptly ended the date.

Anyone think of a "nice" way to ask they send you a photo to confirm whether they are a fatty or not?

 

[BetterCallSaul]

Agree with you. Admittedly i'm not on the dating scene or anything, especially tinder, but how is the flirting aspect going once you match with a girl? Typically I would try for first getting her off any sort of text chat and onto something more personal, like either a phone call or video chat. So using Snap chat with video, is the flirting going well? A few negs here and there, then compliment her on something? Ask her to see a little more of something?

Just throwing ideas out there so that it saves you from wasting your time going to meet up for a date.

 

[The Duke]

I don't have a great answer, but heres what I've learned over the years:

-Look at her arms, if they are flabby, she is fat.
-Look at her fingers, if they are fat, she is fat or was fat at some time.
-The HB8's-9's almost always show you the entire body, thats because they know it looks good. They have nothing to hide.
-Women are fully aware of their best assets. The majority of the time they will emphasize their best asset(legs, boobs, butt, face, etc). Fatties will put the emphasis on their boobs/face and thats all.
-Be careful of photos from weird angles or them in unique positions trying to hide a portion of their body.
-Loose clothes = fatty.
-Look for her collar bone. You will be able to see it on thin girls.
-Look for pics that make her look smaller in some shots and larger in others. If there's much of a difference then the ones of her looking smaller are old pics and she is likely fatter these days.

I had one on tinder the other day....had a pretty face and every single pic was from the boobs up. I knew she was a fatty but I went ahead and asked her....."how come your pics are all from the boobs up?"....haven't heard a word since.

 

[Building_and_Loan]

Tough call. I'm realizing a lot of big girls will have pictures with their way more attractive friends in order to hook you in.

Recently joined the tinder game and am shocked how many big girls and single moms there are.

 

[Ratiocinative]

Women know that a great body is the primary way to grab a man's attention. If she's not using her body to attract you then she's no doubt assuming you won't find it attractive and so she left out a photo on purpose.

Sure, she may be attractive but insecure and thinks she isn't, oh perhaps she's meh but just your type and so you find her attractive. Usually though, they're just hiding it because they're fat.

There are tons of attractive women out in the world, don't waste any time on women you're not completely sure you're attracted to.

 

[PantyWhisperer]

I was bored last night and rolled through about 200 POF accounts within 10 miles of me - only clicking on the ones who weren't absolutely disgusting and there were a lot of big girls on there. I totally get what you're saying about the hide-a-bod pics. LOL Boobs and Face - she's a fatty. I'm like the other guy here who said he can do ugly but not fat. I'm kind of the same way. The light switch is powerless (see what I did there?) against big girls. You can still feel it

 

[Filter]

I usually ask to exchange instagram accounts to see more pictures,

 

[Trump]

One for my Tinder brethren!

I've had situations where girls have posted a limited number of photos with few or no body shots and/or baggy clothes and it turns out they've still been quite hot. I've also had times when they've done this and been chubbos. For me being fat is worse than being ugly.

I think it's the same for every guy. The girl can be ugly, older, divorced, single mom, criminal, short hair, lesbian, moody, high maintenance, egomaniac or any race and the guy will still sleep with her. But if the girl is fat, he will draw the line.

Can't stand it. Where that has happened I've promptly ended the date.

Anyone think of a "nice" way to ask they send you a photo to confirm whether they are a fatty or not?

"Can you send a few pictures from top to bottom?"

 

[marmel75]

Look at her face and arms. If her face is moderately chunky she is almost always overweight. Arms same thing.

Also if she is posting the selfie from an above and down angle, that is code for I'm fat and and I'm trying to fool you. 80% chance she is overweight with one of those pics...If there is more than one of those its almost a certainty.

 

[Wilko]

Conversely, if a woman likes her body, there is no stopping her showing it off. Obnoxious as f*ck if you ask me. Personally, I like a little restraint and subtlety. Nice figure, not trying to hide anything, but not all about the fake f*cking tits and gym selfies.

 

[PantyWhisperer]

Conversely, if a woman likes her body, there is no stopping her showing it off. Obnoxious as f*ck if you ask me. Personally, I like a little restraint and subtlety. Nice figure, not trying to hide anything, but not all about the fake f*cking tits and gym selfies.

This. I would pass on this type of woman maybe even faster than the fatties. Those women are completely insecure and thirsty

 

[marmel75]

This. I would pass on this type of woman maybe even faster than the fatties. Those women are completely insecure and thirsty

That's the best part...thirsty for a c0ck beatdown, lol