Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Asking for a phone number VIA Facebook - Faux pas?

HGKnights

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There's a lady I had recently bumped into, whom I had known for a long time.
We've been facebook "friends" for the last couple of years, and when I bumped into her again, I ended up balking on getting her number (shouldn't of done that, but what can you do about it now?).

I had thought about trying to snag her digits by contacting her on facebook, but it seems awfully faux pas, what is all of your opinions on the matter?

Should I try and get her number VIA facebook or should I just try or should I just wait until I bump into her again in real life to try and get the lady's number?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Chamber36

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IMO there's no point trying to snag her digits if you already have her as a facebook friend. Just talk to her through private messaging in facebook.

Then if she agrees to a date ask for the number.
 

Bumsniff

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HGKnights said:
There's a lady I had recently bumped into, whom I had known for a long time.
We've been facebook "friends" for the last couple of years, and when I bumped into her again, I ended up balking on getting her number (shouldn't of done that, but what can you do about it now?).

I had thought about trying to snag her digits by contacting her on facebook, but it seems awfully faux pas, what is all of your opinions on the matter?

Should I try and get her number VIA facebook or should I just try or should I just wait until I bump into her again in real life to try and get the lady's number?
IF you aren't on Facebook much (seen posting, commenting, etc.) send her a quick email saying hi, and whatever random crap. After two exchanges tell her you aren't on Facebook much and you should both exchange numbers and talk sometime. Don't think about it too much. Just do it. Either she says yes or no.
 

AlphaNate

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I'm a fan of a few C&F PM's to a girl, usually followed by something along the lines of, "You should buy me a drink sometime. Text me. (xxx) xxx-xxxx"

As always, first rule of internet dating is to get her ass off the internet.
 
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