"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Asking female friends for potential plates.

NSX-R

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I was wondering if it's a good idea to ask your female friends if they have any single hot female friends that you can bang. Is this an afc move?
What's your experiences?

I tried it with some and I got mixed responses, some were very positive and happy to help me and others wouldn't even give me an answer.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Seems cheap and low, not in a derogatory way - but like you're cutting corners. But this is how I would feel being self-introspective..meaning I personally wouldn't feel 100% great about it. But it could lead to pvssy.
 

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Big time afc move buddy. Improve yourself enough, then they will start making suggestions to YOU, not you asking. This allows you to maintain control.
 

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I dont necessarily agree its AFC. Depends on how close a friend the female is that youre asking. I have had a chick friend for years and she has pointed me (successfully) to poontang all along. Ive done the same for her re guys. All good.
 

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I dont necessarily agree its AFC. Depends on how close a friend the female is that youre asking. I have had a chick friend for years and she has pointed me (successfully) to poontang all along. Ive done the same for her re guys. All good.
That's what I'm saying dude. She has to point YOU to the poon, not you ask her. There's a huge difference.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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your female 'friends' are not gonna provide you with hot chicks to bang, they just wont.

Anyway, if you're really friends, they may introduce you to some girl they think you're compatible with.
 

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This is what i was thinking aswell. My closest female friend knows all of the chicks i have banged and she has suggested me many other hot friends of her without me asking for it.

Another female friend of mine which she's hot as fck ( i have explained in other posts why I friendzoned her) has also some even more hotter friends. There was a time when i saw her with some of them and the next day i asked her if she can introduce me to them because they are very hot( exactly these words) and i got no comment, just an aggressive glare at me.
 

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I have never been successful set up by any woman. I would not approach a woman and ask her to set me up, in the past I allowed myself to be set up on 'blind dates'.... This never, NEVER worked out.
 

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If there's any way she could brag about you, you would have already met them. But if she only uses you for your attention there's no way she gonna risk that by bringing you around her attractive friends.

And if she thinks you're a "nice" guy that nobody wants, she will try to hook you up with the ugly duckling among her friends as soon as you ask her to play matchmaker. Not worth it.
 

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Completely AFC, in my opinion. You look like a desperate, no pûssy getting motherfûcker. Girls will never want you to be successful In your sexual conquests. Its like asking a deer how to hunt other deers. Get your own poontang, don't verbalized your despair, and always get your own girl.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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