"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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asking a taller girl to a dance?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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hell yeah.
if you are insecure about your height, go buy some stilts and hire someone who can teach you how to balance.

yeah it's much easier to just drop the insecurity.
 

DismantleRepair

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Of course it will.

Either a) Just pretend you're 6' tall, or b) Tease her about how tall she is (don't overdo it though, more often than not it will actually be the girl who is self-conscious about her height)
 

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6 feet eh? very nice.

go with what DismantleRepair said. Tease her a bit. But don't forget to reel her in a bit too. being that tall, she sounds like she has the features to be a model. So try something like a backhanded compliment involving how she could be a model? I dunno. I don't get a lot of girls that are taller than me (I'm 6'2")
 

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A nice teasing routine when you've already opened:
"You must not be very good at dancing." (GASP)
"Because you're so tall, it rules out a lot of shorter guys."
"Come on, lets get on the floor and you can show me what you've got." (take her hand)
"Oh please, I won't laugh when you screw up...as long as you don't start doing the sprinkler, okay?" (pull her into the dance floor)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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