"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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asking a taller girl to a dance?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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hell yeah.
if you are insecure about your height, go buy some stilts and hire someone who can teach you how to balance.

yeah it's much easier to just drop the insecurity.
 

DismantleRepair

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Of course it will.

Either a) Just pretend you're 6' tall, or b) Tease her about how tall she is (don't overdo it though, more often than not it will actually be the girl who is self-conscious about her height)
 

jaaku

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6 feet eh? very nice.

go with what DismantleRepair said. Tease her a bit. But don't forget to reel her in a bit too. being that tall, she sounds like she has the features to be a model. So try something like a backhanded compliment involving how she could be a model? I dunno. I don't get a lot of girls that are taller than me (I'm 6'2")
 

Damian

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A nice teasing routine when you've already opened:
"You must not be very good at dancing." (GASP)
"Because you're so tall, it rules out a lot of shorter guys."
"Come on, lets get on the floor and you can show me what you've got." (take her hand)
"Oh please, I won't laugh when you screw up...as long as you don't start doing the sprinkler, okay?" (pull her into the dance floor)
 

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