"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Asking a girl to a dance...

CavemanLawyer

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Edit: Hmmm...I read my post and realized how newbieish it was, let me rewrite my post (apologizes to anyone that replies before I finish editing) :D.

The homecoming dance is approaching and I was wondering what is the DJ way of asking a girl to a dance? Do you just go up to her and ask or should I do something a little bit different?

For instance, do girls actually like it when you ask them out in a creative way? I remember last year I asked a girl to the dance on the phone. One of my best friends left a little teddy bear in his date's car that was holding a sign asking her to the dance. My date would just joke around about how much better my best friends's invite was than mine (we went to the dance as really close friends with no intentions of getting any closer).

One part of me somewhat agrees with my previous date's statement that maybe I should spice up my invite a little bit, but then again leaving a teddy bear in a girl's car seems AFC to me.

Any thoughts?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Im sure if you did a search "Homecoming" You would find a million threads with the answer your looking for in them ;)

And yes, that teddy bear thing, horribly AFCish...then again, it worked.
 

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Yes the teddy bear is AFC. Tell her that you're going to the dance and you'd like her to join you. This implies that even if she says no you're still gonna go have a good time.

Personally, I went to homecoming single last year and stole all the girls away from there dates. I was dancing with 3 girls at the same time by the end of the night.
 

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Bah, I feel like such an idiot after doing a search for Homecoming. I wish I could delete this post now...
 

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wen't to a dance last friday and just said "come on, were dancing". I didn't even really know the chick. I thought it was kinda funny and way better than the horrible "will you dance with me?" at least say "care to dance?".
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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