"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Asking a girl out tomorrow.

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nek08

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So, theres this girl that I like, I think she thinks that i'm cute, because we exchange glances from time to time, but I don't know if it's right to ask her out because she even told my friend that she does not know me that much and she doesn't want to go on a date with me but would rather just hang out, but she is always with her friends at school and I just want to take her out to the mall, see movie and get something to eat and walk around or w.e

I need some advice, and if u think I should ask her out, can u tell me how i should do it, what i'm thinking right now is

hey -name-, whatsup?

her; nm

me; are u doing nethin for valentines?

her; nothing, (((if she says yes, ill just leave her alone)))

me; oh cool, friday or saturday?

her; wat?

me; what works better for you, friday or saturday?

her; asdjlka

i;ll probably number close if all goes well, but we know each other we are classmates, i have her aim, and her facebook.


that small convo up there was taken from this forum btw.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm in the Mood

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I just failed one of these two days ago.

Don't ask a lot of questions, and get to the point so u can close it up. Get the number and tell her that you'll call her to make plans. Then if u still wanna talk, change the subject right away lol.

In theory it's easy if all goes well.
 
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read the dj bible ffs...

never ask a girl out...you hang out..and kino...if you do it right..she'll want to hang out again and again...eventually, if you built enough of her interest...she'll ask you what you guys are...gf//bf friends, booty call, etc.

ask for how to ask...as long as you do it in person, don't talk too much/long, maintain good eye contact, and kino at least once...you'll be fine

dont try to think of some fancy ass **** to say...just something concise...as long as yyou do it with confidence and mystery..she'll love it...anyways...she has already decided as to whether or not to give you a chance..so what's to worry about...
 
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