"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Asking A Girl Out Even Though She Has Boyfriend

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How high are my chances, even though i am ****y and funny, and dominate person.

Did u djs ever asked women who have boyfriends before and suceeded just by doing the right things, or most of the right things?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Why would you want to go for a girl who's already taken?

I honestly think you're setting yourself up for disappointment. Not only that but you're going to invest time in a chick who most likely is really into her man and no one else, which translates to a WASTE of time. Unless she has told you herself that she's having problems and wants to break up or something, I suggest you go for the single, available ones.
 

jprjrjr

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Also, if she'll drop him for you, she'll drop you for someone else.
 

christz

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if you know their is big time problems in the relationship, stay her friend, i've found that girls with boyfriends is a VERY LONG term project.

hell my ex i was best friends with for 5 years, then we dated for a year and some months, only reason we broke up was because of distance of course, we didn't take that well and don't speak to each other anymore.

but during that time, she was attracted to me but i wasn't her "type" and she would gladly choose another guy over me, on top of the fact anytime i said something on those lines she blew them off.

so yeah dude be her friend i mean what do you got to lose if she's a really cool girl and who knows down the road what can develop
 

cactus3178

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Originally posted by jprjrjr
Also, if she'll drop him for you, she'll drop you for someone else.
Time tested, tried, and true.

Plus, your better than that. Go find your own.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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CLOONEY

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I have taken other guys girlfriends. But they dumped the guys before getting with me. Then I dumped them, and most end up going back to their AFC boyfriends after that.

lol

I would personally go for single ones though. But I can see you probably have a case of one-itis!
 

CLOONEY

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Originally posted by christz
if you know their is big time problems in the relationship, stay her friend, i've found that girls with boyfriends is a VERY LONG term project.

hell my ex i was best friends with for 5 years, then we dated for a year and some months, only reason we broke up was because of distance of course, we didn't take that well and don't speak to each other anymore.

but during that time, she was attracted to me but i wasn't her "type" and she would gladly choose another guy over me, on top of the fact anytime i said something on those lines she blew them off.

so yeah dude be her friend i mean what do you got to lose if she's a really cool girl and who knows down the road what can develop
lol, u sure give good advice :rolleyes:

5 years, to have a year and a bit of feeling like an insecure chump?

No idea what some of you guys are thinking. Grow up and become a man! You give the orders and keep them if you want, they just follow. If they dont, find another one.
 
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