"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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asked her out tonight

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i finally asked her out and got her digits. im gonna give her a call tonight so she can give me directions to her house to pick her up. I'm gonna need to be sure I show her a good time because she just went on a date last night and she went to dinner and a movie. so I'm gonna have to make it 10 x better than the AFC she was with last night.

Just wondering if I should compliment her on anything in particular or just don't even mention crap at all pertaining to her looks, I'm sure she knows she's beautiful already that's why. I don't want to be like the other people.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Nice man, make sure not to be the AFC she was with the next night :p
 
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oh for sure. I'm ending the date early that way it doesn't drag on, and I'll just tell HER to call me when I let her go. I'll be sure to have some kino going on throughout the night. Should be great... I'll probably give an update when it's over.
 
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I wouldn't tell her to call ya... u know girls always "forget" these things.
 
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Yep, don't tell her to call you, thats your job. Just say you had a great time and let her wonder 'if' you will even call her again.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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monkey is right. especially since you're taking her home early shes gonna sweat like crazy wondering what she did wrong to make you take her home so early without so much as a "you're beautiful tonight" or a "call me"
 
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baurman said:
i finally asked her out and got her digits. im gonna give her a call tonight so she can give me directions to her house to pick her up. I'm gonna need to be sure I show her a good time because she just went on a date last night and she went to dinner and a movie. so I'm gonna have to make it 10 x better than the AFC she was with last night.
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You already chopped yourself in the nuts. You put yourself into the "Dating Frame" so you surely won't be getting laid by this chick. If you do its no time soon.

baurman said:
oh for sure. I'm ending the date early that way it doesn't drag on, and I'll just tell HER to call me when I let her go. I'll be sure to have some kino going on throughout the night. Should be great... I'll probably give an update when it's over.
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WTF!?

Why on earth would you end a date early? You should be having fun, enjoying each others time. Escalate, Escalate, Escalate....Fuk CLOSE!

Sometimes I wonder where the hell you guys be getting this stuff from. Seriously what is your purpose of leaving early. Do you got some chick already waiting at home or something? Or are you cutting it short because its some rule of yours?

The best way to get a chick is to fuk her as quickly as possible. Two people that enjoys each others company and has sexual tension in the air will eventually have sex regardless. I'm not saying be a horny desperate guy trying to get sex, but just go with the damn flow. If you guys are making out and sh!t, your going to cut the date short? Hell no you might even come off as insecure and not confident to go all the way.

STOP PLAYING GAMES and have fun

Note - You already fuked up by asking her out, only chodes who have no options do dumb sh!t like that. Next time just get the # and tell her she is meeting up with you.
 
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