"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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asked girl for number- says maybe if you answer this q

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I met this girl at the beach, and she looked me up on facebook and found me.
We messaged a little and i wound up tellin her im shady,, long story,, and asked for her number.
She replied with----well if your just so shady then why in thw world would i need to give me my number?answer that and maybe i will -----

should i message he rback and jus tbe like " nevermind,, no thanks"

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's simple really... I would reply with:

"True, you don't NEED to give me your number and I don't NEED it either. But if you want to see me, I guess giving me your number is the first step"

:)
 
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