Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Luke isn't breaking any forum rules (at least none that we know of), so he's free to post here.positivity_injection said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
that link i provided to enotalone.com proves that he isnt serious and that he is infecting this site with creepiness, that is what it provesBible_Belt said:
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
As someone who was an outsider but has recently registered - I saw Luke's threads and new straight away the guy was never to be taken seriously, I found them funny.positivity_injection said:
LOL. Everything you said here is 100% true.I'm Charming said:As someone who was an outsider but has recently registered - I saw Luke's threads and new straight away the guy was never to be taken seriously, I found them funny.
He's a shining example of what NEVER to end up as, plus I find them hilarious, pure schadenfreude factor.
What's worse though is that I can see aspects of this guys personality with people that I have come into contact with over the years:- he's a real social retard, totally delusional. :crazy:
Just leave the guy alone, you all. It's insulting to say that a guy isn't real just because he has it bad. I'd reckon it takes courage to show your self as it really is without omitting the parts that are going to elicit mockery. No one believes that reality is as perfect and glamourous as 97% of all the smug posters make it sound like.Bible_Belt said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I could be mistaken here but I think that Wutang has slept with two hookers and had a BJ from an older woman in his time, so to some he may be considered a virgin. IMO until he meets a girl his age-range and sleeps with her without the handing over of cash/drugs for the sex, then he won't have overcome his issues tbh. Even with this milf drugs had to be given ... not good.wolf116 said:
Mad Manic, no one is interested in your virgin racist opinions, thats why you were just banned a few days ago buddy boyKeyboard Theorist said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
True, but looks can be improved on to some extent, so it's still your own fault if you suck.wutangfinancial said:
wutangfinancial said:
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.