I don't know about you guys, but sometimes when I try to ask myself this question I get into a little trouble.
For years I've been trained to forget about myself and my needs and desires, and put the focus on other people, be it women, family, etc.
The first shift in DJ thinking comes from putting the focus on yourself, your needs, desires and everything that relates to YOU. After all, you're in earth for the benefit of yourself, not anyone else. If you try to change this, be prepared to become a frustrated, joyless creature.
So, when you're with a woman, ask this question. When you're bored, ask this question. When someone asks you to do something, ask this question. You will find the answer to do whatever makes you happy, just because it's what *YOU* want.
cheers,
djbr.
For years I've been trained to forget about myself and my needs and desires, and put the focus on other people, be it women, family, etc.
The first shift in DJ thinking comes from putting the focus on yourself, your needs, desires and everything that relates to YOU. After all, you're in earth for the benefit of yourself, not anyone else. If you try to change this, be prepared to become a frustrated, joyless creature.
So, when you're with a woman, ask this question. When you're bored, ask this question. When someone asks you to do something, ask this question. You will find the answer to do whatever makes you happy, just because it's what *YOU* want.
cheers,
djbr.