Ask two girls at once and expect a threesome?

[Luke Skywalker]

Here's the scoop, I know two sets of two girls that I would like to ask out together. I'm in a Buffini Real-Estate program, and they told me to send personal notes to everyone I make a connection with. It turns out I sent a personal note to a babe working at Blockbuster and she called me and said that I made her day and put a smile in her face at what she was having a bad day. My course instructor said I should call her and tell her I'm glad I made her day, and invite her out for coffee and said I could also invite her friend as well, who I also like that I have a connection with (although I did not send a personal note).

So I'm thinking, is there a potential that this could turn into a three-some if I take them both out for coffee and then show them both a few homes and go somewhere else afterwards, or is this just something that belongs to 'fantasy world' and is just too advance for a virgin to be thinking about.

The concept of a double date is that it's less intense and you are dividing your attention to two girls, where the girls themselves may talk to each other if there is an ackward moment and you can join in, whatever, so it's something that I'm open too, although it sounds a bit more expensive.

The other double girls set I know is a Real-Estate partner team, but I think one of them is married and the other is divorced (unsure of her current status) and I think I could get both of them to meet me for coffee.

So, what's the scoop here, has anyone converted a double-date to a three-some, or does one of the women have to be bi, or how does this work? Or is this just going too far with the potential of turning off or putting off one or both of the girls/women?

 

[Alle_Gory]

No. Its not going to work. You are still a virgin.

Try later.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Upon reading some threads (numerous of those here) on the matter, it seems a rather bit of a stretch to convert a business coffee date into a threesome as first of all, I would have to assume both girls are also bi, and it just seems way out of character. If it was a bi I was meeting from adultfriendfinder that's one thing, but two girls that work at a video store I normally frequent sounds like it's pushing the envelope to far. I'm not even sure a coffee date with two girls at one time would work, (i.e. ask the target girl out, and if she says yes, to also invite her friend?), but may try it anyway.

Other threads suggest to give each other massages. Again this could be done at a vacant home or condo or something that I'm showing, but again, this sounds just like dark fantasy thoughts that occur in the shadow of the mind when you are interacting with a girl, and perhaps you really cant take them seriously. I mean every girl you talk to you could always potentially think you want to have sex with them, wither singular, plural, etc....

 

[Bible_Belt]

I have had a few threesomes. Once you've done that stuff, it's no big deal. But unless you stumble across two horny bi chicks in a bar who have already decided to make some guy very lucky, then you are not going to just fall into a threesome. Usually they come about by gently encouraging a girlfriend's bisexual curiosities and treading very carefully across the thin ice of threesome jealousy.

But you need to be having freaky sex with one girl already before you can expect to pull it off with two at once. Crawl before you walk, but this is more like crawl before you enter a marathon. Your Penthouse Letters fantasies are just fantasies for now. Leave them at that.

 

[verysuave]

ey man, give it a try, ask them. Its always better to know than not to know EVER

 

[Warrior74]

Cart before the horse.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

ey man, give it a try, ask them. Its always better to know than not to know EVER

The thing is I don't think I know them that well to do so (i.e. cart before the horse). I haven't even asked them out for coffee yet or followed up with it.

I guess the idea of this thread is to see what potential there is if you ask two people out at the same time if there is a chance of a threesome.

I'm probably going to ask both of them out in an innocious way, like if one of them decides to go with me, then I'm going to say it's ok if their friend wants to come too, or invite so and so too.

I don't know what their attitudes are about sex, if any one of them are bi or have bi tendencies, and even if they say yes, I'd probably back down and just store it as a nice memory because that's just insane.

At least there should be a talk about sex to the point of finding that out before that is even brought up, but that ain't going to happen on the limited interaction that I'm used to, which is mainly customer relationship.

You really think that asking them blind as a joke is a good idea? I think all it would show is that I have a dirty mind and have been looking at too much porn (which is not true as I haven't seen any porn since February/08).

 

[kebman]

I've never pulled threesomes, but I know some who does.
First of all, you have to be pretty good with women in general already, if you want it to happen.
Second, converting a business date seems far fetched. Yes, you could probably enter a club, and pull out two chiks, and then get it on by just being honest. But a business coffee date? I don't know about your ability, but unless you are extremely good at converting coffee dates into sex, though, you may have a shot. I know I sure don't. In fact I shun coffee dates, since you're stuck in one place having to look each other into the eyes and always be talking. I just don't feel very comfortable with that, unless you just grab the coffee quick, and than do something else - that preferably also involves kino (touch), like seing some sights, playing games like bowling or minigolf, or what not. IMHO it's easier to escalate during such activities than on a café.

But heck, if you get them both home, why not try Neill Strauss' classic Dual Induction Massage (from The Game)?

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Yeah, I know all about that I've read it on other threads. I'm still asking them out for coffee anyway as it's part of the business program...maybe I'll get a referral from them anyway. I guess this stuff was just an aside, or going into the, what if, zone.

Guess I was looking at too much Mad-Tv stuff on youtube and got inspired or something. (i.e. the skit got deleted, but it went something like a guy asking a girl out to an abandoned house, her friend got jealous, and he asked her to come too and they both went).

I would always think of blirting out if two girls are friendly with me and are also friends "So, you gals wanna have a threesome?" in a loud and obvious tone of voice and see if I could get a chuckle, but once I say that I feel that I've passed the line of no return .... I'm not serious about this and feel I'll blow my cover if I do such a thing. I cant witness about the Lord if I try something like that with them and will lose all credibility that I'm a Christian.

In fact, even thinking about these fantasies is cutting it razor close.

 

[Solon]

A lot of factors go into a threesome. Unless your into swinger culture (which is still not a sure thing) it's a hit or miss situation at best. In your situation I would probably just have fun with the situation (if you get them out together), and see where things go. You never know what can happen. Just don't push for anything. Have fun.

I've made it happen a few times, but that was almost always at parties/clubs. Which is a completely different environment. Though I also hang around an alternative subculture. So that makes it a bit easier. There are a lot more Bi-Females in the group's I hang around. So the chance of things like that happening are a lot better than when you just meet someone in a random situation.