Ask her: "Do you still love me?"

[bigneil]

Here is a fun question to throw at your girl if you've been intimate but neither has said "I love you" yet.

Don't say "Do you love me?", that is too direct. Simply ask "Do you STILL love me?" You are assuming she once did (this question is particularly useful after a breakup and reconciliation). If you're good at reading people and detecting lies her response will reveal a lot. Throw it out there at random, like when you are getting the door for her.

Possible answers.

1) Yes (without hesitation) - 80% likely that she loves you.
2) Pause and she says (perhaps indirectly) yes (hesitation) - 50% likely that she loves you.
3) Pause and she doesn't say yes - 20% likely that she loves you.
4) No (without hesitation) - 0% likely that she loves you.

Estimates may vary. There is never a 100% guarantee of course.

Side note: This method of reading people is why prosecutors put suspects on the spot and flat out ask "Did you kill your wife?" when they are on trial or being interrogated. It's almost guaranteed that they will say no, but it's HOW they say no that matters. Matter of fact, emotionless answers without hesitation indicate truthfulness.

Try this and tell us what answer you get.

 

[dude99]

Had a similar one. And it told me everything i needed to know about a girl i was seeing. (Then dumping later that evening.)

We were bantering back and forth when she came out with " you're such a jerk."

I replied with "yeah but you love me anyways."

When i noticed she stammered and stumbled on her words before she said yeah, i knew she was shovelling me a S#!t sandwich and lying to me.

Things fell appart that same evening and i dumped her.

Put them on the spot. It will reveal true feelings.

 

[wifehunter]

Without actions, it's all BS talk.

 

[bigneil]

Without actions, it's all BS talk.

What are you talking about? Have a point. This is about women who are already putting out.

 

[wifehunter]

What are you talking about? Have a point. This is about women who are already putting out.

The point is "not talking"

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

So why does this matter? I thought you only bang women rather than become exclusive.

You can always tell if a girl likes you by her body language and actions towards you. Words are irrelevant.

 

[El Payaso]

Regardless of your intentions, this just communicates approval seeking and validation behavior to her.

Especially if you ask this after an argument or fight.