"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Asians are the best

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If you are happy with a women who wants to be treated like a man don't bother reading this. I am from the UK and have been a bit of a tearaway all my life. I have lived in the US, Canada, Jamaica, Bahamas, Colombia, France to mention a few. In 2003 I moved to Indonesia. No, it's not full of terrosists. When I was back in the UK a few weeks ago I noticed that everyone looked miserable. Here everyone smiles. Don't need to have pick up lines. More than likely that some beautiful girl will approach you. The bad news is that generally speaking they don't sleep around so if all you are interested in is one night stands, forget it. However if you are seeking an ideal mate, this is the place. No bloody Womens Lib here. The women idolize their men and spoil them to death. They have this huge maternal instinct which is also applied to their men. When I first met my woman, when we exited for someone's house she would precede me and turn my shoes around so that I wouldn't have to bend down and do it. When I told her that I didn't expect her to do that she replied, "Please don't stop me from doing something that shows that I love you." Eight years later she still insists on doing this. Try to get YOUR women to do that :) I can honestly say that I have never known her to be in a bad mood. Even on the odd occasions that we have fallen off the motorbike into the mud, she is still giggling and laughing. She is always affectionate and responsive. We never pass each other in the house without touching. She holds my hand wherever we go. Don't know anywhere else in the world where I could have met someone like her and yet she is typical of the women here. Until you have experienced it you will never really believe it. So eat your heart out guys, or take the next flight to Paradise.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The question is how much is he paying her?

Ah the wonders of true love between people from the first and third worlds.
 

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I'm glad you're happy, but my goal isn't to find some subservient little slave who will never leave me.

I'm a confident, ambitious guy. I want a confident ambitious woman.

But yeah, I'm glad she holds your hand and stuff. I've had chicks try that stuff with me, and it always comes off as needy and clingy.

Different strokes for different folks I guess.
 

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sounds like the asian woman i'm talking to. i have found they are a bit like that myself.. but we'll see.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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can asian men ever do good with women in US; instead of white guys bragging about doing well with asian women? I am 160lb guy maxing on 195lb bench, cut, going to school for BS in nursing, squatting 275 lb, deadlifting 295 lb, always self-developing... not bad looking at all... you know what, maybe i give up.
 

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personally i had bad experiences with asian girls

at first they seem cool and down to earh. as you go deeper in the relationship they begin to control you(more than other races)
 

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Totally agree with that - re control. Have many friends married to Japanese women and they are so under the thumb it's incredible. Women are women.

The whole sweet and subservient thing is an act. Then it's bait and switch time.
 

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Told you

Well I told you that you wouldn't believe it. I have been married to mine for 8 years so I think that's enough time to know how I stand. You want an ambitious blonde,. go right ahead and let her nag you to death ...I've been there...UGH
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I live in asia too. To some extent you do get more traditional girls here but you also get over the top heartless girls with no real value apart from what they want, maybe because they were raised in a cold house hold were their father has their mother under the thumb so much but in reality they've hated eachother for years and built no real bond aside from the guy wanting to own his woman. Unforunately most of the hotter and especially hot rich girls fall into this category. Although I have met many a girl I felt would be really low hassle compared to the west were this type of girl rarely exists..alot of the guys here are really like that... and to be honest once a week on the news there will be some story about someone killing someone for dumping them. Its a common thing also to see a guy and a girl sitting in a starbucks or something looking awkward and one of them in tears. Why? They are dumping them in public, were there are people and no kitchen knives around to kill or commmit suicide with. Its nuts. I dunno if its the education system a social culture thing or just the massive amount of cold families raising kids.
 

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dementia said:
I live in asia too. To some extent you do get more traditional girls here but you also get over the top heartless girls with no real value apart from what they want, maybe because they were raised in a cold house hold were their father has their mother under the thumb so much but in reality they've hated eachother for years and built no real bond aside from the guy wanting to own his woman. Unforunately most of the hotter and especially hot rich girls fall into this category. Although I have met many a girl I felt would be really low hassle compared to the west were this type of girl rarely exists..alot of the guys here are really like that... and to be honest once a week on the news there will be some story about someone killing someone for dumping them. Its a common thing also to see a guy and a girl sitting in a starbucks or something looking awkward and one of them in tears. Why? They are dumping them in public, were there are people and no kitchen knives around to kill or commmit suicide with. Its nuts. I dunno if its the education system a social culture thing or just the massive amount of cold families raising kids.
Hi there. You don't mention what part of Asia you are in. Don't find anything like that here in Indonesia. As to rich girls, I wouldn't touch them. This country is mainly Muslim but very moderate. Beat up your wife and you go to prison. I don't own my wife by any means. She rides the motorbike as is free to go wherever she wants. Just happens to prefer to have me with her. Have had a few friends visit here and find their mate. Some stayed, some took their wives home with them. The divorce rate in the West hovers around 50% which should tell you something. Yes the culture here is different but I love it here. No bloody speed cameras, parking Nazis, sales tax, building permits, dog/TV/fishing/business licenses etc. You can build a small house for about $10,000. Never want to leave.
 
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