oakraiderz2
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backbreaker youre cool dude.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
backbreaker
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I try
bbestar
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Thats exactly how my family works. In the philippines most people you see are really poor and the only way to survive is for the whole family to work. You sacrifice for the greater good of the whole.
My parents think "The American way" is utter foolishness. Being independent and all. When my parents came here to virginia back in the 80's, we basically isolated ourselves from the American Values, except for Tv and news.
For one thing
Ive worked at my father's resturant when i was 8 years old for 7 years, every summer and every day off from school. Long hours, hard work and no pay, ever.
My first job as a telemarketer, all my paychecks go to my parents, no questions asked.
Parents decide what major I goto, what school, they give me money for food, insurance for the car they bought, credit cards for there use and mine.
Currently at radioshack and paychecks straight to parents and in nursing school, since my mom is a nurse.
And today, we turned out pretty well, the house hold is still together, no moral break down and earning more money and moved into a new house, 5 cars
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
nothing too wrong with that.. I actually admire that in some sense.. that's a strong family you come from.
However my family coudln't be any more opposite..
from the time I was 12, my mom pretty much said "well, son.. tough ****.. I don't know what to tell ya, but you need some money and I'm not going to get it for ya"
no allowence, no nothing. I even had to get money to pay for lunch at school and my mom made way to much money for me to get free lunch.
I learned quickly.
the first job i had was cutting yards at 13 years old. I had the entire neighboor hood on call.. making a nice amount of money for a kid that age.
In the winter, I got up at 5 in the morning, and made sure all of the cars in the neighboorhood were warmed up with no ice/snow on them.. for a small monthly fee of course, $10 a month.. doesn't sound like a lot but I had about 40 customers in all.. i was late to school damn near every day because I was working from about 5 until 7:30ish
Then I figured out the joy of Dreamcast Backups... When I was a junior in HS I was making at least $200 a week at school selling backups out of my backpack, and that's at least.. I made about $700 the week before christmas
I've only had one real job my entire life, when I worked for best buy as a computer tech.
The entire time, my mom never asked for anything, however I always made sure I paid one bill a month, usually the phone bill or something like that, just so she couldn't ever say I didn't help out.. she didn't need it, but it felt good
Oh yeah, and from monday-thursday night, I lived by myself.. she worked out of town, 300 miles away.. so I literalry was by myself.
Had to wake myself up, go to bed on time, keep the house clean, whenI played basketball I had to catch a ride home from the game.
However, I never took advantage of my mom's house, because it was her house. Never had house parties or anything like that.. only my two best friends knew my mom was never home.
don't let me run out of food durning the week either.. had to find a ride to the store, or one time, I walked.
So i pretty much raised myself, which is why I think I had to grow up alot faster than alot of people then I know.
My old oneitis, 22, almost 23, still lives with her parents, never had a job.. I was thinking about it, Iw as more mature at 13 than she is at 22.. seriously
I've always been good with money because I always had to work.. or hustle for it.
However my family coudln't be any more opposite..
from the time I was 12, my mom pretty much said "well, son.. tough ****.. I don't know what to tell ya, but you need some money and I'm not going to get it for ya"
no allowence, no nothing. I even had to get money to pay for lunch at school and my mom made way to much money for me to get free lunch.
I learned quickly.
the first job i had was cutting yards at 13 years old. I had the entire neighboor hood on call.. making a nice amount of money for a kid that age.
In the winter, I got up at 5 in the morning, and made sure all of the cars in the neighboorhood were warmed up with no ice/snow on them.. for a small monthly fee of course, $10 a month.. doesn't sound like a lot but I had about 40 customers in all.. i was late to school damn near every day because I was working from about 5 until 7:30ish
Then I figured out the joy of Dreamcast Backups... When I was a junior in HS I was making at least $200 a week at school selling backups out of my backpack, and that's at least.. I made about $700 the week before christmas
I've only had one real job my entire life, when I worked for best buy as a computer tech.
The entire time, my mom never asked for anything, however I always made sure I paid one bill a month, usually the phone bill or something like that, just so she couldn't ever say I didn't help out.. she didn't need it, but it felt good
Oh yeah, and from monday-thursday night, I lived by myself.. she worked out of town, 300 miles away.. so I literalry was by myself.
Had to wake myself up, go to bed on time, keep the house clean, whenI played basketball I had to catch a ride home from the game.
However, I never took advantage of my mom's house, because it was her house. Never had house parties or anything like that.. only my two best friends knew my mom was never home.
don't let me run out of food durning the week either.. had to find a ride to the store, or one time, I walked.
So i pretty much raised myself, which is why I think I had to grow up alot faster than alot of people then I know.
My old oneitis, 22, almost 23, still lives with her parents, never had a job.. I was thinking about it, Iw as more mature at 13 than she is at 22.. seriously
I've always been good with money because I always had to work.. or hustle for it.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
backbreaker:
You are a cool dude and a smart person!
I've read a good number of your posts, pretty insigntful most of the time.
Sorry for the off topic comments...
So, we were talking about Asians...
You are a cool dude and a smart person!
I've read a good number of your posts, pretty insigntful most of the time.
Sorry for the off topic comments...
So, we were talking about Asians...
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
All asians that wonder why they can't get white chicks, I have the answer :woo:
Watch:
This Google Vid
...and learn!
Watch:
This Google Vid
...and learn!
Mr. Unique
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Re: I've noticed.....
I notice this too, especially when im walking around my campus I see blondes with guys with darker complexion. It must be an opposites attract thing.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Re: I've noticed.....
Because that's what most western societies deem to be the most attractive traits. If an Asian guy can get a uber hottie, why not just get a stereotypical one (a trophy) so he can show her around and to prove the negative racial stereotypes wrong?
And I assume that your observation comes from an anglo-saxon society? The USA maybe?
May I add that they are also "always" thin tall with a beautiful face?
Because that's what most western societies deem to be the most attractive traits. If an Asian guy can get a uber hottie, why not just get a stereotypical one (a trophy) so he can show her around and to prove the negative racial stereotypes wrong?
And I assume that your observation comes from an anglo-saxon society? The USA maybe?
Not Quite There
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Re: Re: I've noticed.....
I do, but then again, i'm white.
does the whole world not see white girls, especially blond/blue eyes as the prize?Originally posted by Le Parisien
May I add that they are also "always" thin tall with a beautiful face?
Because that's what most western societies deem to be the most attractive traits. If an Asian guy can get a uber hottie, why not just get a stereotypical one (a trophy) so he can show her around and to prove the negative racial stereotypes wrong?
And I assume that your observation comes from an anglo-saxon society? The USA maybe?
I do, but then again, i'm white.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: Re: I've noticed.....
Any girl (caucasian, asian, black, etc...) who's thin, leggy with an angel face will do for me...
I don't.
Any girl (caucasian, asian, black, etc...) who's thin, leggy with an angel face will do for me...
Not Quite There
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Re: Re: Re: Re: I've noticed.....
but when it coems down to it, i'm into white girls, irish/englsih or scandinavean to be specific.
I am attracted to none white girls, I always say if a girl is fit, shes fit, it don't matter about the colour.Originally posted by Le Parisien
I don't.
Any girl (caucasian, asian, black, etc...) who's thin, leggy with an angel face will do for me...
but when it coems down to it, i'm into white girls, irish/englsih or scandinavean to be specific.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: I've noticed.....
French Girls Rule!
How about French/Spanish/Italian girls then? At least they are much less likely to be FAT...
French Girls Rule!
AsianPlayboy
Banned
French girls have the Asian fetish.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Not really, they just don't hold any negative racial stereotypes against asian dudes.
It must be the culture and the language.
On a sidenote, once I met a couple of québécois canadians (mostly guys though) when going to college in the US, we connected SO well. Felt like homies from back home...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Not Quite There
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: I've noticed.....
I've travelled around france and spain a bit as well, don't get me wrong, I am attracted, but if i had the choice, i would choose a good looking girl from the previous countries I named. Probably also due to the fact i prefer blondes.
As fashionable as french women are meant to be, i actually don't like their dress sense!
I dunno, as beautifull as some of them are, they don't really do it for me....Originally posted by Le Parisien
How about French/Spanish/Italian girls then? At least they are much less likely to be FAT...
French Girls Rule!
I've travelled around france and spain a bit as well, don't get me wrong, I am attracted, but if i had the choice, i would choose a good looking girl from the previous countries I named. Probably also due to the fact i prefer blondes.
As fashionable as french women are meant to be, i actually don't like their dress sense!
That Indian Guy said it best:
"Look at the big picture, Most Asian guys don't have the confidence and assertivness to start a conversation with the girl"
"Majority of Asian guys are too pansy and have small confidence and as result the white guy with more guts steps in and get the girl and you standing on the side blame the white people while you were too chicken to do anything about it yourself".
I know a few Asian guys and they fit the majority sterotypical "nice Asian guy who doesn't approach because he is too shy". I think it has to do with the strict upringing of many Asian men and the demand to succeed well in school that cause many of them to lose confidence in approaching girls and they carry that through out their lives.
LOL thats some funny shyt, but its got a pointOriginally posted by AudiTy
All asians that wonder why they can't get white chicks, I have the answer :woo:
Watch:
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...and learn!
Chillisauce
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your in a whole nother category mate
, for me theres nothing better than a half asian/half white chick (best of both worlds!)My girl says your pretty hot too, so that'd explain why you have no problem getting girls
.mahon83050
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Look at Rick Yun, he is a good-looking Asian guy who most hot white girls would like.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.