"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Asian hair styling

saturos

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Well, i'm asian...
I've always hated my hair(style?). I haven't found a style for it that i like, and most barbers seem to fail hard at cutting asian hair.
I remember two years ago when i went to China, i got my haircut and the asian people there styled and cut my hair nicely, but i never bothered to find out more about how they cut it or what the style might be called, etc.

So are there any particular places i might find a good place to get my hair cut?
Also, i'm not sure if it is hair gel i'm looking for, but say i wanted my hair to stick up something like this:
http://img99.imageshack.us/img99/1280/spikyre1.jpg
I don't know anything really about hair stuffs, so yea...

Thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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barbershop.

most stylists (great clips) suck hard at cutting hair... i have no idea how they even are allowed to cut hair.

i'm asian too btw.

alright, so i went to a great clips a couple months ago when i buzzed my hair... i asked them to do a buzz-mohawk to my hair (kinda like UFC). they completely failed and my mohawk was COMPLETELY jagged and there was not one straight line on my head where they cut. they charged me $12 for a 2 minute job.

so i went o my local barber shop that's been run down and extremely dirty... but he's been in business since i was a baby.

his name is chuck, he charges $2... and they call him two-buck-chuck.

he absolutely owned the other people at cutting hair... he's like 60+ and has more of a steady hand than the idiots at great clips.

moral of the story is... it doesn't matter how much you pay... go for the person with more experience.
 

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I used to waste a lot of time and money styling my hair with gel. Mornings were the worse since my hair would be sticking out everywhere from sleeping, so I would have to blow dry and then style.

I understanding what you're saying about so called hairstylist. Most of them know how to charge a lot but do not know what they're doing with shears. I used to have a great hairstylist and my hair looked great, but he changed professions and since then I have not found a good hairstylist. So one day I pulled out the electric clipper, set it to #2 and never looked back.

It's great, now I cut my own hair whenever I want, save on gel, get up and go in the morning, and I think it looks pretty good.

Might wanna give it a try.
 

Moon Ram

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Bonafide said:
ask your friends....that is if you....have any...
I would have said the same thing. Friends are always around you. They know what will look good on you. It is really easy to make friends, read "How to make friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie for tips. I am really sorry if I was a bit harsh.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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saturos

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so when did i stop having friends...?


Anyways, cr1msonking, that would be great.
And i know where my a lot of my friends get their hair cut. However, i've already tried most places they go to and some of the places i know aren't that good.
 
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