"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Asian Guys with Latinas

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DonJuanChang

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Hi,

Among all the female races other than Asian, I would have to say that Latinas pair very nicely with Asian males. Who needs Caucasian girls? Latinas are a lot more open-minded and hotter. =)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tha Realnezz

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No they aren't I'm half Dominican. No they aren't open-minded.

They date other races but it's usually black and white.That's about it. I hate to generalize but they are old-school who are out for wedding rings and a nice home. Asians can provide that but they won't deal with the culture clash and unfortantley they beleive in that strerotype.That asian men aren't well endowned or good in bed.

Honestly I've only seen 2 asian and latino's(other than philipino but so many speak spanish and have similar traits) couples in my whole life.
 

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Whats this? Now after all the "Im so poor because Im asian and cant get white girls" threads we have "Im asian and white girls suck" threads?
 

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Well, if you're talking about Latinas from NYC or somewhere in the East Coast, then yeah, they are very close-minded.

The girls I'm referring to are from California and New Mexico area. Most of the time, you can see some Asian features in latins there.

Not hating on white girls at all... I had more than enough of my share. =) Time to experience other girls...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tha Realnezz has spoken the correct. . .
at least here in NY.


I've met only one asian male / latina female couple in my whole life here. But if it's less of an issue out west, more power to you.



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