"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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asian guys and white chicks?

TheFlyingMan

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Any asians on here?

I used to have some self-limiting beliefs that kept me going for asian chicks, but the more experience I get the more I start thinking that other race girls are fair play too.

Any tips from anyone who's been there before?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Kaizen

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White girls, asian girls, hispanic girls, black girls... whatever they are... they're all just girls. The only differences and/or limitations are all in your mind, and your mind set. The only tip is to see them as a girl, just like any other.
 

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I just started a series of posts with regards to sticking points and limiting beliefs for Asian men. The majority are applicable to everyone regardless of a race, but there are a few that especially afflict the Asian bros.

Part 1: Limiting Beliefs that Asian Men have
http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2006/04/sticking-points-of-asian-men-when-it.html

Part 2: Outer Game Sticking Points for Asian Men
http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2006/04/sticking-points-of-asian-men-when-it_25.html

Part 3: Outer Game Sticking Points for Asian Men
http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2006/04/sticking-points-of-asian-men-when-it_26.html
 

Lion

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I think especially in the Asian culture, everyone is less touchy feely and much more sensitized, little IOI mean more than they would do in western cultures....... correct me....
 

TheFlyingMan

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thanks guys
hey asianplayboy, checked out your site, good ****, if I was in the US I would hire ya in an instant!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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