asian girls

[auggressive]

I just found out about the DJ from a friend and he told me about this site. Ive read a lot of posts and write ups on the main page. After trying what you say I felt better and more confident and realized talking to a girl about ****ing isnt hard at all.

I live in an area with 75% asians. I think they are pretty sexy but they seem very frusterating. I haven't had much problems with getting a phone number, ****ing, flirting or just starting a conversation with a white girl. But asians are just ****ing different or something. I have so much trouble trying to talk to them like they seem like they get mad or fed up with me or something. Like I've tried being a jerk, being a nice guy, tried flirting like crazy, tried the straight up "lets have sex." It's gotten to a point where I think I have a physical automatic turn off that asian girls HATE. Like I havent gotten much places with any Asian girls except friends and bieng friends pisses me the **** off (sometimes i think I'd rather have a girl hate me than have a girl be my friend) It's like I've never really even had an asian girl get close to me yet or even get interested.

Are asian girls any different? why? what could i be doing wrong?

 

[Phantasmal]

That's really strange. I have the opposite problem.

 

[jakethasnake]

These are your options.

There are three types of Asian girls


- the ones who wish they were white
- the ones who don't want anything to do with whites, and
- the ones that are fairly liberal and even-keeled.



The first two types are extremely racist - but the key difference is that the first kind has INTERNALIZED RACISM, i.e. hates herself and thus projects that self-hate onto others, i.e. by finding a trophy whiteboy. This should be easy prey for you, since most Asian guys think they are damaged goods (so consequently they get no love from their yellow brothas). Funny thing is, no one is really impressed by their antics - it's all in their head.



The second type are just racist, period. They don't like you because you aren't a handsome Asian man - just like any race of girls, there are ones that only find their own desirable. Hey - you can't win with them, so move on to other targets.



The last ones, you have a 50/50 chance with, maybe even 60/40 (not in your favor). These chicks are usually proud of their culture and mostly prefer their own, but won't turn down a worthy non-Asian candidate. You should work on these. But because they are so proud and intelligent, they are acutely aware of white pervs with 'yellow fever'. If they even smell a hint of that on you, they will tell you to go eat shyt and die. So don't do that - if you do have an Asian fetish, then learn to hide it well. Otherwise, you have no chance with these types.

 

[DJ_Dork]

uh maybe those asian girls prefer dating within their own race? don't think because you're white you can get asian girls or have a perceive notion that asian girls will dig you automatically.

 

[DJ_Dork]

Originally posted by jakethasnake
There are three types of Asian girls


- the ones who wish they were white
- the ones who don't want anything to do with whites, and
- the ones that are fairly liberal and even-keeled.



The first two types are extremely racist - but the key difference is that the first kind has INTERNALIZED RACISM, i.e. hates herself and thus projects that self-hate onto other, i.e. by finding a trophy whiteboy. This should be easy prey for you, since most Asian guy think they are damaged goods (so consequently they get no love from their yellow brothas). Funny thing is, no one is really impressed by their antics - it's all in their head. The second type are just racist, period. They don't like you because you aren't a handsome Asian man - just like any race of girls, there are ones that only find their own desirable. Hey - you can't win with them, so move on to other targets.



The last ones, you have a 50/50 chance with, maybe even 60/40 (not in your favor). These chicks are usually proud of their culture and mostly prefer their own, but won't turn down a worth non-Asian candidate. You should work on these. But because they are so proud and intelligent, they are acutely aware of white pervs with 'yellow fever'. If they even smell a hint of that on you, they will tell you to go eat shyt and die. So don't do that - if you do have an Asian fetish, then learn to hide it well. Otherwise, you have no chance with these types.

most asian girls who date white boys are the first category who are self-hating asians. they date white guys as a form of trophism showing asian guys who ignored them that they're better. i've met asian girls who say 'i only date white guys' and then when i look at them.. i think eeeech go ahead no asian guy would date someone as ugly as you.

also noticeable is that the white guys who date asian girls tend to be dorkier (which means they don't have much luck with white girls)

 

[jakethasnake]

Originally posted by DJ_Dork
most asian girls who date white boys are the first category who are self-hating asians. they date white guys as a form of trophism showing asian guys who ignored them that they're better. i've met asian girls who say 'i only date white guys' and then when i look at them.. i think eeeech go ahead no asian guy would date someone as ugly as you.

also noticeable is that the white guys who date asian girls tend to be dorkier (which means they don't have much luck with white girls)

Well, I only partially agree with that. There are some Asian girls that respect their culture, are good people, and just happen to be with a whiteboy. Not all are like that. However, it would be a lie to claim that no Asian women with white men are like the morons that you described above. The whiteboys can definately have those - I don't want 'em, and neither do 99% of Asian men.

 

[auggressive]

Thanks for the input. What are all these phrazes that im seeing like AFC, C+F, JBY, etc? Is there a post up or guide where I can see what these mean and mabye any other lingo i might see?

 

[niteguy2003]

I love Asian girls!!!!!! I don't know what it is about them but they are sooooo freakin sexy!! My last g/f of 3 years was vietnamese/white mix. I guess I have a fetish for them or something, I dunno. I love them when they dress up in those little school girl outfits with the plaid skirts and ummmm yeah. My ex used to dress like that for me when we would go to clubs and stuff, huge turn on. But that is just me. Nuff said.

-Jeremy

 

[Hollowpoint]

Chinese God here!

I recommend learning something ABOUT THEIR culture, and language. Be open minded and unafraid to try new things or eat "wierd" foods. (I myself still find somethings "weird.")

Wait.......why am I giving you guys tips? You're gonna take my ladies away from me!

Originally posted by DJ_Dork
most asian girls who date white boys are the first category who are self-hating asians. they date white guys as a form of trophism showing asian guys who ignored them that they're better. i've met asian girls who say 'i only date white guys' and then when i look at them.. i think eeeech go ahead no asian guy would date someone as ugly as you.

LOL!

 

[ScrewIt]

Originally posted by DJ_Dork
most asian girls who date white boys are the first category who are self-hating asians. they date white guys as a form of trophism showing asian guys who ignored them that they're better. i've met asian girls who say 'i only date white guys' and then when i look at them.. i think eeeech go ahead no asian guy would date someone as ugly as you.

also noticeable is that the white guys who date asian girls tend to be dorkier (which means they don't have much luck with white girls)

quite true i notice it too. in addition i notice the asian girls that date caucasians are simply not that hot, they're just average looking.

I lived in NYC almost all my life so i've seen it all. in specific parts of the city, you'll see white gusy with asian girls (prolly bf/gf) or a group of caucasians with only 1 asian in the group...guess who?? bingo, the asian girl. it probably has a little something to do with self-race discrimination. since white america is so powerful and rich, they think causaisns have it all, money and power. from that stereotype of caucasians, asian girls may want to place themselves on a higher plane/status above their own race, by being gf with a caucasian dude and hanging with his crew.

but dont take it harsh buddy, in general most ppl will prefer ppl within their own ethnic group. there are a few cases where some may not, but thats if you get lucky and find one of those.

 

[Crank_It_Up]

I enjoy beautiful, intelligent, feisty, horny women... their nationality never figures into the equation. If I ran into a girl that based her choice on something so trivial as religion, race, or economic status, I'd let her drown in the nearest mud puddle.

 

[Spike_Tha_Cowboy]

I like Asian girls because they prefer my smaller sized manhood.

 

[jakethasnake]

I like boning white girls because they prefer a larger sized manhood. (The great thing is, I totally measure up in my pants. )