"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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asian gals require the guy have a car -especially if ur a asian guy

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do you guys think that having a nice new car-eg rsx, prelude, infinti-well nice new import car would likely gain you more girls or keep girls. keeping girls i mean -girl more likely to be interested in you, and keep on goling out with you.

that what i been seeing lately in vancouver and especially in richmond,bc. all the asian guys with the nice new recent model honda, acura, infinti sport cars usually to almost all the time had a cute or hot asian girl in the passenger driver seat.

that with the chinese community i see it less with white couples. not sure if they are cbc or honger types. i think a mixture of both

i believe being a chinese cbc guy if ya don;t have the money or the car-nice one that is-good luck geetin a chinese cbc gf, maybe try flip, thai, malaysian,viet or ven white if white gal willing to go out with us chinese guys-as when they come to this country are usually poor and not as rich as honger or chinese cbcs.


not only does the cbc chinese guy have to have a car ,but a nice nice recent model car. you even see a chinese cbc or honger drive a older model any honda or even american -ah never. tehy all drive nicce new cars.

asian chinese girl are u really like that-really into guys and their cars-and are u willing to date a chiense cbc guy-great guy but drives a cheap cavalier or even no car. white girls yes-chinese gurls hmm i wonder

any asian guys have had this problem before-aisan chinese girl all into ya and then when they see ur car-its like ahh no logner interested and shes all quite. the car be it a 96-03 cavalier, sunbird or a late 80's honda . some car worth 2000 to 6000 max and nothing really special either



oh yea the girl has no car
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't see why it is a problem. First of all, it is only a problem if you want to be that type of Asian guy that has the dough and the flashy car but you aren't 'fortunate' enough to actually have it. Second, it is only a problem if you want those type of Asian girls that are only interested in Asian guys that have dough and flashy cars.

Since you clearly want to be that type of 'desirable' Asian guy, go and work towards it. Make that money and get that flashy car. Then the girls will come.
 

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Joe your post dont make anysense, i got a headache trying to find out what you were trying to say.
 

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Hey Joe, yep Im in vancouver, see that a lot, hot asian babe with asian dude in nice car, not sure why, maybe it seperates asian afc's from alpha asian dudes? in there minds anyway, lot of rich hongers got there mommys to buy that car anyway so doesnt really make sense, coincedently Im persuing an asian babe from richmond just now who I met on line, and I remember she specified in her ad 'would be nice if he had access to a mode of transportation 24 hours a day' ? which I have but its a work van.. lol.... best of luck..
 

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joe45 said:
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do you guys think that having a nice new car-eg rsx, prelude, infinti-well nice new import car would likely gain you more girls or keep girls. keeping girls i mean -girl more likely to be interested in you, and keep on goling out with you.

that what i been seeing lately in vancouver and especially in richmond,bc. all the asian guys with the nice new recent model honda, acura, infinti sport cars usually to almost all the time had a cute or hot asian girl in the passenger driver seat.

that with the chinese community i see it less with white couples. not sure if they are cbc or honger types. i think a mixture of both

i believe being a chinese cbc guy if ya don;t have the money or the car-nice one that is-good luck geetin a chinese cbc gf, maybe try flip, thai, malaysian,viet or ven white if white gal willing to go out with us chinese guys-as when they come to this country are usually poor and not as rich as honger or chinese cbcs.


not only does the cbc chinese guy have to have a car ,but a nice nice recent model car. you even see a chinese cbc or honger drive a older model any honda or even american -ah never. tehy all drive nicce new cars.

asian chinese girl are u really like that-really into guys and their cars-and are u willing to date a chiense cbc guy-great guy but drives a cheap cavalier or even no car. white girls yes-chinese gurls hmm i wonder

any asian guys have had this problem before-aisan chinese girl all into ya and then when they see ur car-its like ahh no logner interested and shes all quite. the car be it a 96-03 cavalier, sunbird or a late 80's honda . some car worth 2000 to 6000 max and nothing really special either



oh yea the girl has no car

I am not an Asian guy but I can share your mentality.

I too considered this similar thing with white English chicks.

It seemed my mates with all the dough and the nice cars where pulling hot women, I assumed it was because they had the nice convertible and the cash to flash.

I was wrong and right:

Thing is there are women out there that are as one could say, gold diggers in the smallest term possible, I don’t mean after the cash, but they want to have the means to look good so they want there BF to have the social best, nice car, nice dress sense and cool, so they can go around to there mates normally and show off or appear cool. So they go after a guy to make them appear cooler, nice cars are a part of it. These girls probably wont date you if you don’t fit into there criteria of flash car or earn x amount of cash, that is a probably, not a definite!

A guy I knew when he picked up chicks in his car, most if not all wanted him to drive near there mates house, reason why you can figure it out.

There are also girls that don’t need guys to show them off and don’t want to be an extension of the guys wallet and actually look behond the gold, these girls too are aplenty, your just not looking out for them, like I was! These type of women are secure and know where they are going, they don’t need some flash fly boy to woo em and it takes more then a flash set of wheels to get them hot.

The women is scenario 1 when or if the money dries up or the flash car is no longer available will most likely move on or even if a guy comes along with a better car e.t.c she may move onto him, it is about social status and not really about you. Do you really want that type of women as a LTR prospect, I know I don’t.

Scenario 2 women, will be looking for things in you that she likes and is not swayed in outside sources of wealth and status.

There is a flip side to this, secure, fine women, usually want a good man too, not necessarily rich but equal in terms of there status, women don’t generally marry down, so that bird your perusing it pays to earn more, this is the only rule to worry about not how flash your car is.

If the girl is only seeing you for your car or for your wallet, use it and abuse it, she is doing the same you after all, she needs to be treated like a low key prostitute, because underneath it all she is selling her self on your financial status rather then your true self.

Don’t envy the guy in the flash car with the hot babe! Envy him if he is using these very shallow women, but don’t envy him if he is going about it like the OP, he gets the goods the rest is a bonus.

And yes if you get a flash car there are plenty of shallow women in this world ripe for the taking.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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jonwon said:
I am not an Asian guy but I can share your mentality.

I too considered this similar thing with white English chicks.

It seemed my mates with all the dough and the nice cars where pulling hot women, I assumed it was because they had the nice convertible and the cash to flash.

I was wrong and right:

Thing is there are women out there that are as one could say, gold diggers in the smallest term possible, I don’t mean after the cash, but they want to have the means to look good so they want there BF to have the social best, nice car, nice dress sense and cool, so they can go around to there mates normally and show off or appear cool. So they go after a guy to make them appear cooler, nice cars are a part of it. These girls probably wont date you if you don’t fit into there criteria of flash car or earn x amount of cash, that is a probably, not a definite!

A guy I knew when he picked up chicks in his car, most if not all wanted him to drive near there mates house, reason why you can figure it out.

There are also girls that don’t need guys to show them off and don’t want to be an extension of the guys wallet and actually look behond the gold, these girls too are aplenty, your just not looking out for them, like I was! These type of women are secure and know where they are going, they don’t need some flash fly boy to woo em and it takes more then a flash set of wheels to get them hot.

The women is scenario 1 when or if the money dries up or the flash car is no longer available will most likely move on or even if a guy comes along with a better car e.t.c she may move onto him, it is about social status and not really about you. Do you really want that type of women as a LTR prospect, I know I don’t.

Scenario 2 women, will be looking for things in you that she likes and is not swayed in outside sources of wealth and status.

There is a flip side to this, secure, fine women, usually want a good man too, not necessarily rich but equal in terms of there status, women don’t generally marry down, so that bird your perusing it pays to earn more, this is the only rule to worry about not how flash your car is.

If the girl is only seeing you for your car or for your wallet, use it and abuse it, she is doing the same you after all, she needs to be treated like a low key prostitute, because underneath it all she is selling her self on your financial status rather then your true self.

Don’t envy the guy in the flash car with the hot babe! Envy him if he is using these very shallow women, but don’t envy him if he is going about it like the OP, he gets the goods the rest is a bonus.

And yes if you get a flash car there are plenty of shallow women in this world ripe for the taking.
Well, maybe it's not that big of a deal. Think about why ,a women would want a man with a car A) to brag to all her friends about you B) as a way for her to get around. I do think it helps to make a decent amout of money but I don't think a car matters all that much mean really don't see any dude pick up any girl that's worth any time in a car

When was the last time you saw a women get in a car with a dude she didn't know at least a little bit? But I have seen a guy get a girls number while just talking to them and this was warking a cashier job at a stupid supercenter. (i made the guy my master) The point is if your game is tight you can do wonders sometimes I shock myself (but not lately).
 

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How would she know what you drive anyway when you meet her and attract her? Are you gonna talk to her and in the middle of the conversation say "oh by the way, I drive a Benz, it's really nice"?
 

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Now how bout that!
 
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