"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jono123

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So i met these 2 asian chicks who happened to be in one of my classes at college. We talked about stuff and i thought it went pretty well. The thing is everytime i only have a few minutes before class to talk with them or, very rarely, during class because we are busy taking notes and getting to the next class.

So i'm thinking of getting to know them better outside of class time, like asking them to have lunch together but the problem is the 2 are Best Friends and they go EVERYWHERE Together and when they talk between themselves they speak cantonese. I am asian but i dont know any canto. When they talk its quite difficult to jump in the conversation so what should i do? I'm not looking to F**K either of them or anything like that, i just thought itd be cool to hang out with them and be friends and meet their other friends. It seems so much easier for other guys who speak cantonese to talk with them and frustrating for me because they CAN speak perfect english. Should i just forget them and turn my attention to other chicks?

Any advise would be appreciated, thanks in advance.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hitman10000

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The language barrier will be there, I would honestly pass this up. I also think you're a douchebag for telling us your intent on trying to befriend them is to "be their friend." Girls are not stupid, boy.
 

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If you wanted just friendship you wouldn't be posting on this website now would you? Listen since you attracted to both of them... work both of them. Its really as easy as that...
 

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Ask them to come watch a movie with you. Show em an asian threesome porn and be like 'we should try that sometime'.

Just playin'. You should NEXT em. If they were more considerate, they'd speak english around you.
 

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spesmilitis said:
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You should NEXT em. If they were more considerate, they'd speak english around you.

Sorry for being a noob, but "NEXT em" = ?:confused:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Analytic

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Next = move on, find another girl to talk to

Its a disrespect these girls are showing you if they speak in diffrent languages around you so I wouldn bother getting to know them. You shouldn take sh!t from nobody.
 

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Analytic said:
Because chinese girls who speak loud cantonese is so cool that you HAVE to be their friends
Also he probably prefers the ****.

Seriously, what's with the roundabout description of your intentions? Did you suddenly forget what forum you are in?
 

Freddy1

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Hitman10000 said:
The language barrier will be there, ..
Unless of course they were born in North America.
But then again they will have all the same attitudes as other North American chicks which is a bummer.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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