"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jono123

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So i met these 2 asian chicks who happened to be in one of my classes at college. We talked about stuff and i thought it went pretty well. The thing is everytime i only have a few minutes before class to talk with them or, very rarely, during class because we are busy taking notes and getting to the next class.

So i'm thinking of getting to know them better outside of class time, like asking them to have lunch together but the problem is the 2 are Best Friends and they go EVERYWHERE Together and when they talk between themselves they speak cantonese. I am asian but i dont know any canto. When they talk its quite difficult to jump in the conversation so what should i do? I'm not looking to F**K either of them or anything like that, i just thought itd be cool to hang out with them and be friends and meet their other friends. It seems so much easier for other guys who speak cantonese to talk with them and frustrating for me because they CAN speak perfect english. Should i just forget them and turn my attention to other chicks?

Any advise would be appreciated, thanks in advance.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hitman10000

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The language barrier will be there, I would honestly pass this up. I also think you're a douchebag for telling us your intent on trying to befriend them is to "be their friend." Girls are not stupid, boy.
 

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If you wanted just friendship you wouldn't be posting on this website now would you? Listen since you attracted to both of them... work both of them. Its really as easy as that...
 

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Ask them to come watch a movie with you. Show em an asian threesome porn and be like 'we should try that sometime'.

Just playin'. You should NEXT em. If they were more considerate, they'd speak english around you.
 

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spesmilitis said:
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You should NEXT em. If they were more considerate, they'd speak english around you.

Sorry for being a noob, but "NEXT em" = ?:confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Next = move on, find another girl to talk to

Its a disrespect these girls are showing you if they speak in diffrent languages around you so I wouldn bother getting to know them. You shouldn take sh!t from nobody.
 

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Analytic said:
Because chinese girls who speak loud cantonese is so cool that you HAVE to be their friends
Also he probably prefers the ****.

Seriously, what's with the roundabout description of your intentions? Did you suddenly forget what forum you are in?
 

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Hitman10000 said:
The language barrier will be there, ..
Unless of course they were born in North America.
But then again they will have all the same attitudes as other North American chicks which is a bummer.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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