"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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Typically, Asian girls are very loyal. They are just raised that way. Many Asian girls are also open to multi-cultural dating and their parents don't really mind it if they bring home a white man, just because it's all about success for them usually. Asian guys are usually a little ticked about this since Asian guys in general are not as appealing as other guys. Don't debate, it's true. Most Asian guys will get with Asian girls and Asian girls will get with anyone they feel attracted to. These are not rules, but in general, this is what happens.
I feel this is wrong, my old girl was asian and while it seemed that she was very loyal, she broke our three year relationship after not having seen me for 1 month an IMMEDIATLY got herself a new guy. I believe that the loyalty thing is more superficious because asian girls like to have more of a romantic and idealistic feeling of love, I think this is just a game, and as soon as it gets tough you experience the greatly pragmatic mind of the asian woman.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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Ive given this more thought and need to post again, sorry.

Under the cover of what may make an asian girl seem different shes actually a pragmatic and surprisingly cold person. Women always want to believe in noble traits such as loyalty and love but they dont usually have the strength and endurance to actually live up to these ideas so theyll just throw them overboard when they become limiting to their general fun.
In other words, you need to to treat asian girls like any other girl, **** these asian + (random race) threads.
 

jakethasnake

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Phoenix of the ashes,


Are you Asian or non-Asian? If you're not Asian then I have to admit I'm VERY impressed by your insightfulness. You must have had a very deep relationship with an Asian girl, and have had time to analyze the relationship for a while, to be able to come up with that stuff. It's pure gold.


If any whiteboy wants to have a REAL relationship with an Asian woman they need to stop listening to propaganda from movies ("I ruv yoo rong time!") and mail order bride websites ("Asian women are loyal, will clean up after you, fetch your paper and slippers.... who needs a dog?") and pay attention to Phoenix of the Ashes. IMHO, Asian women are even more dangerous than Western women, in terms of their ability to use you and eventually clean you out and cut your down at the knees. This goes double if you're a non-Asian man with an Asian woman.


Once again, there is no 'utopia' to be found in the arms of an Asian woman. Most are out to use you, especially if she is a foreign national. The more destitute her homeland is, the more you should keep your guard up.
 

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Originally posted by Wong Fei Hung
In most sitcom there are no Asians at all. When there are, the asian actors are portrayed as dorks and geeks or degrading people that society need less of.
So what? THat's to our advantage.

Wong Sifu: Tiu Kau Lei Lou Mou!

:D

Originally posted by Hoobie
Just to put my 2c in for all the other asian bros out there.

90% of the whole asian issue is in your own f*cking head. Once you realise this fully, that's when the adventures will truly begin.

:)
Absolutely true. If Hoobie really wanted to, he could start his own Asian Seduction Dojo (ASD :p).

Hoobie + Loverboy = My inspiration (secondary, since I never met you guys in real life. I've met two of your RSD comrades though).
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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