"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's easier to win the lottery. As an Asian-American dude,
I am at the bottom of the totem pole. I cannot get girls ever.

I paid a "wingman" $500 to go with me and show me the ropes.

This wingman said "watch how it's done", all I saw was him talking to girls asking
girls for numbers and getting rejected all night.

Then he had to nerve to ask me to buy him drinks.

I have never seen a competent person in action who can actually
get a girl to like them.

At least one that is outside of their social circle.

Females members of my own culture prefer White or Latino men.

Statistically speaking Asian females are more likely (58% vs 42%) to marry a White male than an Asian man.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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nestlepurelife said:
It's easier to win the lottery. As an Asian-American dude,
I am at the bottom of the totem pole. I cannot get girls ever.
Judging from your statement....Ive made the corrections below:

"As a beta chump, I am at the bottom of the totem pole. I cannot get girls ever."

Lucky for you pal, you dont have to remain this way...
 
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TheException said:
Judging from your statement....Ive made the corrections below:

"As a beta chump, I am at the bottom of the totem pole. I cannot get girls ever."

Lucky for you pal, you dont have to remain this way...
Statistically speaking Asian females are more likely (58% vs 42%) to marry a White male than an Asian man.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LOL @ THIS TROLL

No offense but this is b.s.

One of the best guys who I use to go out with was asian, and he had chicks out da ass. He was so good that a PUA company wanted him to work for them

He was skinny and tall

How was he good?

Simple

He dressed like a boss, talked like a boss, and had a social circle like a boss. He was a funny cool guy and because of that he was able to attract some of the hottest tail I've seen. He use to be shy and awkward but he started to become more assertive and approached chicks like a boss. I've seen him pull of some pretty crazy shyt infield which I didn't know could happen

For instance: He once used a bartender to make a chick he was hitting on jealous and then he number closed both of them. I mean you shoulda been there to see it, it was pure magic how he did it.

Proof is in the pudding(the bartender)

Bad pic but this chick is a model

Alpha at 5'11, and 160 pounds? yes sir

He is married now to a hot Asian chick he met through a social circle. My point? develop your lifestyle and work hard enough and you can become just like him
 

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Solomon said:
LOL @ THIS TROLL

No offense but this is b.s.

One of the best guys who I use to go out with was asian, and he had chicks out da ass. He was so good that a PUA company wanted him to work for them

He was skinny and tall

How was he good?

Simple

He dressed like a boss, talked like a boss, and had a social circle like a boss.
He is married now to a hot Asian chick he met through a social circle. My point? develop your lifestyle and work hard enough and you can become just like him

Yeah. Basically the troll is saying, "I'm an Asian dude with a crap personality and nothing to offer the dating pool." Which is like....yeah, if you're ANY dude with a crap personality, you're not going to score girls.

Let's play along and assume that he's a real person....telling by his whiny demeanor and the fact that he had to pay $500 to hire a friend to go to bars with him, I'd guess that he's just not good with people, male or female.
 

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Lol it seems like every pua guy has some asian guy that pulls mad ass. I have yet to see an asian pull, so this is like hearing somebody claim they saw jesus. Op, where do you live, how do you dress and look, and do you act assimilated?
 

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WTF is this PUA bull $hit I keep hearing about ??? Is it some kind of list of reverse phycology tricks in making someone temporary attracted to you until they realise how much of a looser you actually are ????
 
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WTF is this PUA bull $hit I keep hearing about ??? Is it some kind of list of reverse phycology tricks in making someone temporary attached to you until they realise how much of a looser you actually are ????
ya lol
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Well, Asian guys will in general be shorter and have less muscles, which is detrimental, but can be overcome. You can work out, for example. Might take more effort, but it can be done. We all have our problems; some are short, near-sighted, have thinning hair, etc. The planet wasn't made to cater to us.

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WTF is this PUA bull $hit I keep hearing about ??? Is it some kind of list of reverse phycology tricks in making someone temporary attracted to you until they realise how much of a looser you actually are ????
Pick-Up Artist, yes, it's all those tricks the media talk about when they talk about the new idea, that men can actually improve so they won't have to go without sex for ten years. Journalists will always pick the easy target. To mention a website like this one, and the DJ Bible, where you learn to improve and avoid pitfalls but don't try tricks, doesn't cater to the feminists and so it would be too risky for a journalist tasked with handing in a story. So the PUA stuff gets a lot of undeserved attention, while the good stuff gets none.
 
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