"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Maximummax

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I started a conversation with this chick at the coffee store, but really don't know how to escalate to the next level
i was unable to generate some female to male interest.
after reading some books, i was able to work on approach anxiety
How to Make conversation move to next level, so that i can get Female to male interest. How do you guys do it? Any suggestions
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Chamber36

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I walk around with a sense of purpose. I attract ladies the most when I dress masculine, like in all black clothes for example. Or a nice dress shirt, or a T-shirt if I did some working out.

Eye-contact which is incredibly strong. Breath calmly. Speak seductively.
Sexual innuendo's. Whatever.

Just being confident. Act like you make a good impression on all the people you know. And if you didn't make a good impression on anybody STOP TRYING to impress them.
 

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It's not about what you say it's about the way u say it.
 
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