"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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As a parent would you let your son do this?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If his father continues to help his son, the son will get far in life. And there'll be no need to visit online forums on how to pickup women because the son will be a natural.
 

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If I had a kid I would let them do that, but absolutely never without a helmet. My parents started me skiing when I was even younger than that.
 

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_sideways_ said:
A natural?


Skateboarding makes u a natural DJ?
Any skill that you build from such a young age as man makes you a better dj. I think often times many men are very capable if being a dj, but the only problem is their white knight beta mindset.\


For example, if in a few years when he is bigger, he already knows how to skate well, and is better than all his friends it means that he dominates other men in terms of skating. If you can dominate other men it makes womens pvssies wet.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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^....Ok.

So some kid speaking two languages at the age of 2 is a natural DJ?

I think youre reaching.

So my baby cousin who was a gerber baby model is or will be a natural lady killer?

I think the skate board kid is cool, but hardly a player or sosuave master.

So he gets to be the next shawn white...gets pvssy and fame....still not a natural. Just lucky this society rewards skateboarding and hence he has market value.

A DJ knows the trials and errors is womanizing.


Maybe im hating....or maybe the spawn growing in my lady's belly will be the next pimp ronaldo cuz hes already doing bicycle kicks in the womb.

Until a girl breaks his spirit and he bounces back like the champ he is, we will not know.
 

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_sideways_ said:
^....Ok.

So some kid speaking two languages at the age of 2 is a natural DJ?

I think youre reaching.

So my baby cousin who was a gerber baby model is or will be a natural lady killer?

I think the skate board kid is cool, but hardly a player or sosuave master.

So he gets to be the next shawn white...gets pvssy and fame....still not a natural. Just lucky this society rewards skateboarding and hence he has market value.

A DJ knows the trials and errors is womanizing.


Maybe im hating....or maybe the spawn growing in my lady's belly will be the next pimp ronaldo cuz hes already doing bicycle kicks in the womb.

Until a girl breaks his spirit and he bounces back like the champ he is, we will not know.

When people talk about "natural alphas" it really refers to boys who were probably more dominate in sports, and whatever else. If you are the best skate boarder at the skate park, especially as kids, all the other people will look up to you. I mean its really not that hard of a concept man.

Having this skill doesn't guarantee anything, he could still end up afc, beta ect.

However him learning that skill at that age I think will increase his chances by a lot, or at least his potential, as opposed to not having it.
 

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Many times its not much a matter of learning a skill but to do something and succeed, thats are the base stone in self confidence.

That same self confidence he can get as a kid after doing something hard and succeed will be spread in all his activities, and to see your own father believing in you will increase such confidence even more, to have him help you and follow you into the struggle will multiply it since you realize that you have his approval and support which for a kid are critic.

Most of us have fvcked up self esteem because when we were kid we heard lines such "to become a champion you have to be born one its not something you can do" or "let those big guys play, just sit and watch you wouldnt last a minute there".
 
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