“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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As a guy that missed out on it growing up, feel like its too late for me to be happy.

aspiringbloomer

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Or satisfied.

I managed to finish high school and college as a virgin due to my difficult circumstances. These days I feel like even if I was to go on some wild run where I was sleeping with 50+ girls a year, the past will always bite at me. It's like I will never be happy in life due to all the fun I missed out on growing up. The power of young love, date nights with my girl, and having sex during spring breaks. It is like no matter what I do, I won't be able to find happiness...
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It's all perspective my friend. You're doing much better than a person in poverty on Africa
 

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skinnyguy said:
It's all perspective my friend. You're doing much better than a person in poverty on Africa
I thought about this, how can some people in third world countries be so happy by having much less? Then I found that for years I have had this bull**** hookup culture drilled into my head to where it has ****ed me up beyond repair. It is like no matter what I do, I constantly think about getting a lot of *****. It is not even about the sex itself as much as it is about earning validation through sex. I want to be the hugh hefner but I know that I will never find happiness in that. Even though I will never find happiness in it, my ego has been crushed by being a sexless loser in college to where I feel like I need to have needless sex with as many women as possible. It is like I have to do it but I won't find happiness in it.

I can't change the past but I am afraid that the past has hurt me so much to where I can't move forward either...
 

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The mind cannot find or attain happiness and satisfaction; it keeps digging and digging in this or that direction but cannot be happy. It is good that you realize that a material life of xyz accomplishments and xyz sexual encounters will not fulfill you, otherwise you'd spend the rest of your life chasing an illusion.

What is the problem? The past is gone, or rather it never was. All we have is now. Go do what you want to do, no excuses.
 
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