"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Alright, so I'm brand new to the forums, been reading for around a month now, and figure I have a discussion topic so here goes.

Right now I'm about ready to get my own first place (by myself, no college roommates etc., just me) now that I'm out of college and working. I managed to finish college single, and now I'm moving to another college town, which means that there will still be many women in my age range yet (I don't stray +/- many years).

So after doing some research I'm working on setting up the ultimate bachelor's pad, with the intent to have me enjoy the place, and yet have women come over and think "ah, someone with some class and culture".

However like most people I'm not an expert in everything, so when it comes to artwork, or things to put on the wall, this is where I tend to hit a road block. I'm an engineer, so things that I like typically women have very little interest in. From my investigations ideally artwork that is artistic obviously, thought provoking, and has a subtle sexual presence behind it is what I need to aim for.

Theme wise I'm kind of open, I figure artwork and decor make the room, and finding furniture to match won't be an issue for the most part.

So I'm wondering if anyone has any suggestions or past experiences with what seems to make women enjoy being around the most.

Some ideas I've thought about that might meat these requirements:
Japanese/asian cultural images and such.

Tropical locations, beaches, Caribbean theme.

Country feel, remote locations (not a huge fan of this one personally)

City Life (thinking lots of pictures of nighttime in cities, maybe pictures of people in clubs or something along those lines.)

More abstract, this one stretches me a little, I have a very practical mind so I'm not sure I could work with this as well. Things that are very clean and modern, not the emptied gallons of paint and its a dead bird type of stuff.

Dunno, I'm kind of at a loss for where to go with this. I haven't moved into my place yet, but will be soon, and before I start furnishing it I wanna get a theme setup, and possibly different themes for different rooms so as long as they aren't to strong, I still want it to be a man's place you know. Defiantly nothing cluttered, I like things very clean, and I figure less is more in this case, but none wouldn't work at all.

Let me know what you think :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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horaholic

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Cant go wrong with marilyn monroe on the wall. I like the retro/rockabilly decor. myself. (for my apartment only, Im not a rockabilly dude). Chicks like it too. Its sorta classy, yet subtly sexual and interesting. Antique shops and swap meets, and yard sales. Lots of conversation pieces. I got a bunch of little tiki things, and Elvis and Marilyn, and Bettie Page stuff. Cool looking plants. Fishtanks are cool, but only if you're gonna live there for a long time.

Best advice, is to ask your most creative female friends to help, with whatever you decide to do. Im sure your college has an interior design course. Ask some of them for advice too. And always have candles handy. A DJ must.
 

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Ultimate piece of art "Attack of the 50ft Woman" movie poster. The one with the woman over the expressway clutching a car in her hand and pretty much causing mayhem.

If you're going for that ultimate bachelor pad feel, deffinetly go with the retro theme. Like the old 50's 60's bachelor pad feel.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I would just go with what you like, also try to match the color with the furniture, you don't want to have colors that clash with the overall color scheme of your apartment.
I have a couple paintings that I did that clash a little, but I figure the fact that I made them would impress a chick more than the fact they may slightly clash with the color scheme of my place. Really it is just like picking out what clothes to get and wear for the day. You want the colors of your clothes to be complimentary and not clash so you don't look like a dork, same thing for decorating your apartment/house.
 
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