mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
A lot of them want to waste a busy mans time and will seduce him in order to do so.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
HoneyHitter
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This reminds me of the PUA era:
that line she says where "he does nothing and says nothing"....there was a male character in movie 'broken hearts gallery' like this.
The archetype of the 'silent and strong man', I guess
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Who Dares Win
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PUA is like teaching negotiation techniques to a homeless guy so he can get a mortgage in a bank.
Too bad negotiation techniques only work to get a more favourable outcome only when you already have what it takes to get something to begin with.
Too bad negotiation techniques only work to get a more favourable outcome only when you already have what it takes to get something to begin with.
If a man's frame is brittle making it thus not worth much, then no amount of pick up skills he learns will ever be sustainable.
If a man's frame is strong, then he need not learn any pick up skills, since his frame naturally is attractive to women.
To find a jellyfish of a man, all one needs to do is seek out how he thinks - you'll soon find his desire to learn PUA skills is actually a subconscious mask he uses to hide his brittle frame.
If a man's frame is strong, then he need not learn any pick up skills, since his frame naturally is attractive to women.
To find a jellyfish of a man, all one needs to do is seek out how he thinks - you'll soon find his desire to learn PUA skills is actually a subconscious mask he uses to hide his brittle frame.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
PUA is simply a method to encourage a woman to do what she already wants to do. That's it. There is nothing magical about it. The PUAs can not and will not be able to teach a dude to get any woman he wants. It has never really been like that. The secret of PUA is to teach men how to behave in a way that makes you attractive to women that just want to hook up... they also teach men how to be attractive short term... finally they teach men not to be discouraged by rejection.
So you learn how to behave in an attractive way, how to present yourself, and keep trying. Eventually you will get a chick. It works... always has, and always will. PUAs teach men how to be a dancing grinder monkey begging for coins. The monkey will get coins. My problem with PUAs is they sell dudes on the idea that any man can get any woman... that is bvllsh1t. It is also completely useless if you want to find a relationship. Oddly enough, most men want relationships... so if they are listening to PUA advice in an effort to find a 'relationship' you are learning the wrong skill sets.
If you get really good at picking up chicks eventually it gets boring... really, I kid you not. You might think if you are in a place where you are not having success with women, the idea that you could sleep with dozens of women a year is great... it is for awhile, but you have to spend a lot of unproductive energy to do this... ultimately it is a waste of time.
So you learn how to behave in an attractive way, how to present yourself, and keep trying. Eventually you will get a chick. It works... always has, and always will. PUAs teach men how to be a dancing grinder monkey begging for coins. The monkey will get coins. My problem with PUAs is they sell dudes on the idea that any man can get any woman... that is bvllsh1t. It is also completely useless if you want to find a relationship. Oddly enough, most men want relationships... so if they are listening to PUA advice in an effort to find a 'relationship' you are learning the wrong skill sets.
If you get really good at picking up chicks eventually it gets boring... really, I kid you not. You might think if you are in a place where you are not having success with women, the idea that you could sleep with dozens of women a year is great... it is for awhile, but you have to spend a lot of unproductive energy to do this... ultimately it is a waste of time.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
If he is socially approved females will fvck with him. They care about status more than looks in many circles. Look @ Biggie Smalls. Face, body and aura.
Eroded...
Sounds horrible.
But it's true which makes it even worse then it sounds.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
apotheosis
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good looks is what it's about (when we're talking about not basically being a sugar daddy or whatever)
You can even be autistic like this dude lol
looksmax.me
he bangs new hot young girls every night lol
You can even be autistic like this dude lol
Amnesia Tinder Adventures Pt. 4 | Looksmax.me - Men's Self-Improvement & Aesthetics
***The purpose of this thread is not to brag*** A brief description of who I am in the spoiler tag right below this This episodes poll is "Have u gotten laid off a dating app in the last 30 days?" 20 year old 5'1'' Matched on Tinder been chatting a few days over text before today...
looksmax.me
he bangs new hot young girls every night lol