MatureDJ
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
article: Why ‘micro-cheating’ might be good for your relationship
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MoreThanSmooth
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This latest trend of "micro-something" is just silly. I think it started with "micro-aggression" - the idea that if you don't look at a member of a different ethnicity in the eye when you pass in the hallway, that is a micro-scale act of racism.
Instead of, you know, just being shy/normal and not staring co-workers in the eye every time you see them.
"Micro-cheating" is the same sort of nonsense IMO. Liking a FB post is not comparable to f*cking someone...
Instead of, you know, just being shy/normal and not staring co-workers in the eye every time you see them.
"Micro-cheating" is the same sort of nonsense IMO. Liking a FB post is not comparable to f*cking someone...