MatureDJ
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Why polygamy breeds civil war
When large numbers of men are doomed to bachelorhood, they get desperate
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
claudolfgeorgini
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Women would rather share men than date down.
Poonani Maker
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I just got outta the grocery store after work. Cashier girl, a RUNT of a girl, not very good looking but early/mid 20s. She had a ring, albeit just a cheap silver band.
You’ll be paying for her and her kids in 2 years after the divorce. Or most likely it’s a fake engagement for a wedding that’s never gonna happen.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
When society destroys adventure the only adventure left will be to destroy society.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Poonani Maker
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Takes away All incentive for disloyal female to stick together and try to make it (the marriage or relationship) work.