article: When Baby Comes Before Happily Ever After

[MatureDJ]

https://shine.yahoo.com/parenting/baby-comes-happily-ever-143300077.html

Forty-one years old and fresh out of a relationship, I found myself facing a tough decision: whether or not to have a child on my own. I hated the term "single mother by choice," knowing that if I went through with a solo pregnancy, I would really be more of a single mother by default. After all, I wanted to get married; I just hadn't met the right man. But with no time to waste, what was I going to do? Go on a few dates with someone and tell him I needed to be pregnant within a few months? So I chose a sperm donor, injected myself with fertility drugs, and got inseminated (via intrauterine insemination), thinking it would never work.

A few months before Teddy was born, I remember fretting to a friend, "If I do this, will I be alone forever?" My friend, already a mother herself, laughed and said, "If you do this, you will never be alone again."

my opinion:

 

[speed dawg]

This crap is so terrible.

1 - We are trying to beat nature.

2 - How selfish is it to bring another kid into this world just for your own selfish desires?

3 - Why do people think single parenting is a good thing? Only time it should be acceptable is when it's done out of necessity. Choosing to do it is retarded.

 

[Desdinova]

When NO man wants to procreate with you, it's called "natural selection".

 

[MOTU]

Right on!

When NO man wants to procreate with you, it's called "natural selection".

Hahaha awesome. Repped.

 

[MtnMan]

When NO man wants to procreate with you, it's called "natural selection".

yes!

 

[logicallefty]

http://www.cnn.com/2014/01/23/justice/kansas-sperm-donation/


B!tch, I don't freaking think so. :box:

 

[MatureDJ]

When NO man wants to procreate with you, it's called "natural selection".

my opinion of this response: :yes:

 

[Maximummax]

When NO man wants to procreate with you, it's called "natural selection".

pretty accurate

I just hadn't met the right man: you will never