MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
This quote is such crap.I guess this guy got it.
dene
3 weeks ago
Men don't hate women because they refuse to give them sex. Honestly, sex is not that big a deal for men these days. There are brothels easily available and free and ubiquitous porn. What makes young single men mad is that they are seen by society as a whole as a lower form of life, of much lower value than a cat or dog. That is why you see no social moves to understand or help them. That is why a huge number of young men turn to suicide. No-one cares about young men as they are seen as disposable and worthless. Even in the comments I only see scorn, bordering on hatred. Don't get me wrong, I do not condone any violence of any kind, especially against women. However young men who have not got any money are seen as the lowest of the low. At least young women derive social value from their looks, older men from their status, older women from their status and their contacts and their family. Their are strong indications of young men opting out through MGTOW, Suicide, or other means. But people don't care because young men are lower than dogs. The Incell phenomenon is not just about sex, it's about acceptance as human beings.
Of course, which is why for any pink ribbon there is a blue one in tv and the amount of public money spent of breast cancer prevention is the same as the amount spent on prostate cancer prevention.This quote is such crap.
This dude is Communicating how MANY people feel, men and women.
MANY people feel that they are being treated as if they are alower form of life.
MANY people feel no one cares enough to listen, understand, and help them.
MANY people feel as if they are treated like scum because they don't have finalise means.
MANY people feel they are mistreated because of their looks.
MANY people feel that they are not answering as human beings.
Men treat men poorly.
Men treat women poorly.
Women treat men poorly
Women treat women poorly
Everyone does it.
That's where you guys get it wrong on this board. Many people, men and women, struggle with ALL the emotions that you guys post about. It's not a male/female thing, we ALL share emotions in common. Yes, we have differences due to biology, but we all struggle equally.
MGTOW, incel, etc - all the feelings and thoughts that cause men to turn to these ideas, all the hatred and angst, women are thinking, feeling, saying the same.
It's RIDICULOUS to think men are special snowflakes regarding this!
Yeabut does that feeling of no one giving a fvck about them have to do with his own cognitive processing as opposed to a societal reality?Of course, which is why for any pink ribbon there is a blue one in tv and the amount of public money spent of breast cancer prevention is the same as the amount spent on prostate cancer prevention.
Im not aware of any quota, government program, school program nor tv program to face young men issues while the other way around is slapped in your face everyday.
That quote makes a lot of sense, its not the lack of sex that drives those fvcker insane, its the fact that no one gives a flying fvck about them as if they were expandable goods with no dignity or human rights.
No one is condoning their sick answer to the state of things but clearly denying the problem wont make the symptom go away.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Lotta talking about feelings and the shaming about the ribbons on the bottom while my point was clear...thanks I'm done talking to you.Yeabut does that feeling of no one giving a fvck about them have to do with his own cognitive processing as opposed to a societal reality?
We can all think ourselves into a corner, or into depression, into a single track, if we let ourselves. We see it here on these boards every day. Big Dave, frog, T. People who say they want to be noticed, recognized and valued (like your commentor) but refuse to actually hear what people lovingly provide as input.
My point was, we ALL feel the way that dude does at one time or another, or all the time. The feelings he expressed are not specific to being male
I can't comment on the whole breast vs prostate cancer money thing because I feel those organizations are poorly run to begin with. People are getting rich with the donation money as opposed to finding research, IMO
If ur so offended that you see a lot of pink ribbons and you feel there is more awareness on women's health issues, them wear a ribbon and get involved. Don't blame that on society favoring women. It's more likely due to the apathy of men to start/support these types of programs. Women tend to support causes that affect them. Men should too.
Stop mentioning me.Yeabut does that feeling of no one giving a fvck about them have to do with his own cognitive processing as opposed to a societal reality?
We can all think ourselves into a corner, or into depression, into a single track, if we let ourselves. We see it here on these boards every day. Big Dave, frog, T. People who say they want to be noticed, recognized and valued (like your commentor) but refuse to actually hear what people lovingly provide as input.
My point was, we ALL feel the way that dude does at one time or another, or all the time. The feelings he expressed are not specific to being male
I can't comment on the whole breast vs prostate cancer money thing because I feel those organizations are poorly run to begin with. People are getting rich with the donation money as opposed to finding research, IMO
If ur so offended that you see a lot of pink ribbons and you feel there is more awareness on women's health issues, them wear a ribbon and get involved. Don't blame that on society favoring women. It's more likely due to the apathy of men to start/support these types of programs. Women tend to support causes that affect them. Men should too.
Lol, YOU claim that men don't have as many social programs as women do, and that is BY DESIGN, and when I suggest that YOU get involved, wear a ribbon, make a difference, I'm shaming you? I think the truth is more that you ARE organically ashamed that you are NOT more involved.Lotta talking about feelings and the shaming about the ribbons on the bottom while my point was clear...thanks I'm done talking to you.
Pointless talking to you, just either fail to get the points or twist them.
WTF are you so butthurt about? You are literally the biggest a$$hole on these boards!!Stop mentioning me.
Btw, what kind of dumb a$$ b1tch are you to think that people are "lovingly" giving me advice? Do you live on another planet or something?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.