MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
This quote is such crap.I guess this guy got it.
dene
3 weeks ago
Men don't hate women because they refuse to give them sex. Honestly, sex is not that big a deal for men these days. There are brothels easily available and free and ubiquitous porn. What makes young single men mad is that they are seen by society as a whole as a lower form of life, of much lower value than a cat or dog. That is why you see no social moves to understand or help them. That is why a huge number of young men turn to suicide. No-one cares about young men as they are seen as disposable and worthless. Even in the comments I only see scorn, bordering on hatred. Don't get me wrong, I do not condone any violence of any kind, especially against women. However young men who have not got any money are seen as the lowest of the low. At least young women derive social value from their looks, older men from their status, older women from their status and their contacts and their family. Their are strong indications of young men opting out through MGTOW, Suicide, or other means. But people don't care because young men are lower than dogs. The Incell phenomenon is not just about sex, it's about acceptance as human beings.
Of course, which is why for any pink ribbon there is a blue one in tv and the amount of public money spent of breast cancer prevention is the same as the amount spent on prostate cancer prevention.This quote is such crap.
This dude is Communicating how MANY people feel, men and women.
MANY people feel that they are being treated as if they are alower form of life.
MANY people feel no one cares enough to listen, understand, and help them.
MANY people feel as if they are treated like scum because they don't have finalise means.
MANY people feel they are mistreated because of their looks.
MANY people feel that they are not answering as human beings.
Men treat men poorly.
Men treat women poorly.
Women treat men poorly
Women treat women poorly
Everyone does it.
That's where you guys get it wrong on this board. Many people, men and women, struggle with ALL the emotions that you guys post about. It's not a male/female thing, we ALL share emotions in common. Yes, we have differences due to biology, but we all struggle equally.
MGTOW, incel, etc - all the feelings and thoughts that cause men to turn to these ideas, all the hatred and angst, women are thinking, feeling, saying the same.
It's RIDICULOUS to think men are special snowflakes regarding this!
Yeabut does that feeling of no one giving a fvck about them have to do with his own cognitive processing as opposed to a societal reality?Of course, which is why for any pink ribbon there is a blue one in tv and the amount of public money spent of breast cancer prevention is the same as the amount spent on prostate cancer prevention.
Im not aware of any quota, government program, school program nor tv program to face young men issues while the other way around is slapped in your face everyday.
That quote makes a lot of sense, its not the lack of sex that drives those fvcker insane, its the fact that no one gives a flying fvck about them as if they were expandable goods with no dignity or human rights.
No one is condoning their sick answer to the state of things but clearly denying the problem wont make the symptom go away.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Lotta talking about feelings and the shaming about the ribbons on the bottom while my point was clear...thanks I'm done talking to you.Yeabut does that feeling of no one giving a fvck about them have to do with his own cognitive processing as opposed to a societal reality?
We can all think ourselves into a corner, or into depression, into a single track, if we let ourselves. We see it here on these boards every day. Big Dave, frog, T. People who say they want to be noticed, recognized and valued (like your commentor) but refuse to actually hear what people lovingly provide as input.
My point was, we ALL feel the way that dude does at one time or another, or all the time. The feelings he expressed are not specific to being male
I can't comment on the whole breast vs prostate cancer money thing because I feel those organizations are poorly run to begin with. People are getting rich with the donation money as opposed to finding research, IMO
If ur so offended that you see a lot of pink ribbons and you feel there is more awareness on women's health issues, them wear a ribbon and get involved. Don't blame that on society favoring women. It's more likely due to the apathy of men to start/support these types of programs. Women tend to support causes that affect them. Men should too.
Stop mentioning me.Yeabut does that feeling of no one giving a fvck about them have to do with his own cognitive processing as opposed to a societal reality?
We can all think ourselves into a corner, or into depression, into a single track, if we let ourselves. We see it here on these boards every day. Big Dave, frog, T. People who say they want to be noticed, recognized and valued (like your commentor) but refuse to actually hear what people lovingly provide as input.
My point was, we ALL feel the way that dude does at one time or another, or all the time. The feelings he expressed are not specific to being male
I can't comment on the whole breast vs prostate cancer money thing because I feel those organizations are poorly run to begin with. People are getting rich with the donation money as opposed to finding research, IMO
If ur so offended that you see a lot of pink ribbons and you feel there is more awareness on women's health issues, them wear a ribbon and get involved. Don't blame that on society favoring women. It's more likely due to the apathy of men to start/support these types of programs. Women tend to support causes that affect them. Men should too.
Lol, YOU claim that men don't have as many social programs as women do, and that is BY DESIGN, and when I suggest that YOU get involved, wear a ribbon, make a difference, I'm shaming you? I think the truth is more that you ARE organically ashamed that you are NOT more involved.Lotta talking about feelings and the shaming about the ribbons on the bottom while my point was clear...thanks I'm done talking to you.
Pointless talking to you, just either fail to get the points or twist them.
WTF are you so butthurt about? You are literally the biggest a$$hole on these boards!!Stop mentioning me.
Btw, what kind of dumb a$$ b1tch are you to think that people are "lovingly" giving me advice? Do you live on another planet or something?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.