"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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article: We're just too clever to find a boyfriend!

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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being 'too clever', is a thing...knowledge gives people 'big heads' and 'big attitudes'.

Can you say 'old maid'?
 

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1. They have created all of these programs that benefit women. Little has been done to promote men. Education, career advancement, health issues, shelters, etc. What do you expect? Its like raising two children and you care about one and neglect the other.

2. The feminists and the sheeple are oblivious to the fact that what these modern day women offer is of little use or interest to men.

Just the other day a friend has two early 20yo old daughters who have graduated from college. they are attractive and well adjusted. They both complain that no men will commit to them and they are both looking for marriage!

I think its great that men aren't buying what modern day woman is selling.
 

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Yet even more mature men fail to show the requisite enthusiasm for her university projects — which include a radio documentary she recently produced on ‘the pressure that black women are under to adhere to white beauty stereotypes’.

She is not that clever if she is surprised....


She acknowledges some of her degree subjects were a bit ‘out there’ — they included gender and sexuality in Africa and reproduction in new medical technology — but adds: ‘It was hurtful that men didn’t want to talk about them.

Oh really??'
 

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1. They have created all of these programs that benefit women. Little has been done to promote men. Education, career advancement, health issues, shelters, etc. What do you expect? Its like raising two children and you care about one and neglect the other.

2. The feminists and the sheeple are oblivious to the fact that what these modern day women offer is of little use or interest to men.

Just the other day a friend has two early 20yo old daughters who have graduated from college. they are attractive and well adjusted. They both complain that no men will commit to them and they are both looking for marriage!

I think its great that men aren't buying what modern day woman is selling.
I agree with all you just said.

Btw, I´m 30, I´ll happily marry the better looking one.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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