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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
article: Turns Out Women Have Really, Really Strong Sex Drives: Can Men Handle It?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Given that the author suggests that women who are forward enough to want sex are afraid men will kill them (as a reason to avoid pursuing sexual linkups more avidly than they do) I'm discounting the whole piece.
Really, in these 45 plus years since the dawn of the feminist era, are women still promoting the idea of their sexual reticence as being men's fault? Their actions are based more on their own preferences in behavior as anything men do. If women really wanted sexual "freedom" they simply need to take it and to hell with the consequences. They've done it in other areas where the goal was desirable.
Just like asking for the vote and a job and a career in today's workplace. They didn't ask men's permission.....they just did it. Men adapted; they would adapt here as well.
C'mon. We're having sex with them after all. We know how much they "want it." I doubt that's changed much from 60 years ago.
Given four decades have passed since the dawn of feminism, when are women going to take responsibility for their own sex drives and not blame its actual expression (how often they're "horny") on men?
Women are "incredibly horny" yet still inhibited 45 years after feminism. I see that as their fault if they are.
Really, in these 45 plus years since the dawn of the feminist era, are women still promoting the idea of their sexual reticence as being men's fault? Their actions are based more on their own preferences in behavior as anything men do. If women really wanted sexual "freedom" they simply need to take it and to hell with the consequences. They've done it in other areas where the goal was desirable.
Just like asking for the vote and a job and a career in today's workplace. They didn't ask men's permission.....they just did it. Men adapted; they would adapt here as well.
C'mon. We're having sex with them after all. We know how much they "want it." I doubt that's changed much from 60 years ago.
Given four decades have passed since the dawn of feminism, when are women going to take responsibility for their own sex drives and not blame its actual expression (how often they're "horny") on men?
Women are "incredibly horny" yet still inhibited 45 years after feminism. I see that as their fault if they are.