"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Article: Turning beta male birds into alphas

TruWarier

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Confidence can be a contagious thing, and while changing one's hairstyle and wardrobe and/or pretending to be a confident alpha male won't miraculously transform an "AFC" into a Don Juan, having even just a little success with the ladies can be a confidence builder for most guys. And confidence breeds more confidence.

We all know that merely being perceived as "attractive" or "desirable" by one or two females can catapult a guy into being viewed as "desirable" by many females. And according to a new study, it works that way for birds too. Via Yahoo News: Marked-up birds become sexier, exude testosterone:

"A little strategically placed makeup quickly turns the wimpiest of male barn swallows into chick magnets, amping up their testosterone and even trimming their weight, new research shows.

It's a "clothes make the man" lesson that — with some caveats — also applies to human males, researchers say.

Using a $5.99 marker, scientists darkened the rust-colored breast feathers of male New Jersey barn swallows, turning lighter birds to the level of those naturally darkest.

They had already found, in a test three years ago, that the marked-up males were more attractive to females and mated more often.

This time they found out that the more attractive appearance, at least in the bird world, triggered changes to the animals' body chemistry, increasing testosterone."


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"Other females might be looking at them as being a little more sexy, and the birds might be feeling better about themselves in response to that," said study co-author Kevin McGraw, an evolutionary biology professor at Arizona State University."
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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demonic

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No not intresting, it's bs....humans are alot diffrent than birds people...jeez
 

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demonic said:
No not intresting, it's bs....humans are alot diffrent than birds people...jeez
Someone didn't read the article. The same hormonal responses are detectable in humans.

Humans and birds share a very similar physiological system; especially these birds because have evolved in a similar type of social order to that we now face - because of this natural selection suggests that they should have evolved the most beneficial responses to their social setting by now, in the same way that we have.
 

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Ha....It just shows how superficial alot of animal/human instincts are.
The problem is how would one apply this trick to your own life?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DarkShade

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Well, 100 years ago is was considered low-class if you had a tan, since it meant you worked outside and were usually unskilled. Pale, plump people were in fashion because they didn't have to work outside, and they were physically 'healthier' because they were 'larger in girth', meaning they ate well and a lot.

Nowadays if you aren't tan and slender, there's something wrong with you. It's all based on societal influences. So for now, society tells you to go get a tan, wear Tommy Hilfiger and drive a high priced vehicle. Superficial crap.
 
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