"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Article: Turning beta male birds into alphas

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Confidence can be a contagious thing, and while changing one's hairstyle and wardrobe and/or pretending to be a confident alpha male won't miraculously transform an "AFC" into a Don Juan, having even just a little success with the ladies can be a confidence builder for most guys. And confidence breeds more confidence.

We all know that merely being perceived as "attractive" or "desirable" by one or two females can catapult a guy into being viewed as "desirable" by many females. And according to a new study, it works that way for birds too. Via Yahoo News: Marked-up birds become sexier, exude testosterone:

"A little strategically placed makeup quickly turns the wimpiest of male barn swallows into chick magnets, amping up their testosterone and even trimming their weight, new research shows.

It's a "clothes make the man" lesson that — with some caveats — also applies to human males, researchers say.

Using a $5.99 marker, scientists darkened the rust-colored breast feathers of male New Jersey barn swallows, turning lighter birds to the level of those naturally darkest.

They had already found, in a test three years ago, that the marked-up males were more attractive to females and mated more often.

This time they found out that the more attractive appearance, at least in the bird world, triggered changes to the animals' body chemistry, increasing testosterone."


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"Other females might be looking at them as being a little more sexy, and the birds might be feeling better about themselves in response to that," said study co-author Kevin McGraw, an evolutionary biology professor at Arizona State University."
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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No not intresting, it's bs....humans are alot diffrent than birds people...jeez
 

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demonic said:
No not intresting, it's bs....humans are alot diffrent than birds people...jeez
Someone didn't read the article. The same hormonal responses are detectable in humans.

Humans and birds share a very similar physiological system; especially these birds because have evolved in a similar type of social order to that we now face - because of this natural selection suggests that they should have evolved the most beneficial responses to their social setting by now, in the same way that we have.
 

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Ha....It just shows how superficial alot of animal/human instincts are.
The problem is how would one apply this trick to your own life?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well, 100 years ago is was considered low-class if you had a tan, since it meant you worked outside and were usually unskilled. Pale, plump people were in fashion because they didn't have to work outside, and they were physically 'healthier' because they were 'larger in girth', meaning they ate well and a lot.

Nowadays if you aren't tan and slender, there's something wrong with you. It's all based on societal influences. So for now, society tells you to go get a tan, wear Tommy Hilfiger and drive a high priced vehicle. Superficial crap.
 
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