"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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article: The struggle to conceive with frozen eggs

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https://www.washingtonpost.com/news...e-your-career-but-things-didnt-quite-work-out
]Brigitte Adams became the poster child for freezing your eggs. But things didn’t quite work out how she imagined.
Adams remembers feeling a wonderful sense of freedom after she froze her eggs in her late 30s, despite the $19,000 cost. Her plan was to work a few more years, find a great guy to marry and still have a house full of her own children.

Things didn’t turn out the way she hoped.

In early 2017, with her 45th birthday looming and no sign of Mr. Right, she decided to start a family on her own. She excitedly unfroze the 11 eggs she had stored and selected a sperm donor.

Two eggs failed to survive the thawing process. Three more failed to fertilize. That left six embryos, of which five appeared to be abnormal. The last one was implanted in her uterus. On the morning of March 7, she got the devastating news that it, too, had failed.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Its classic feminism and mental retardation in society pushing the female imperative. Society pedals to the feminine. Women can go full retard, can initiated domestic violence, spend her best days skiing down cawk mountain, trash her sexual market value (SMV) and when her best days are over, now its time to play homemaker. She can drink like dad. Can't cook like mom.

Simply put, unless she is a free thinker, its a hit and run. You do like Santana and put her on smash. Then go get more babes. I give zero **** about playing homemaker with the woman competing with the men for the corner office all the while trashing her best years as a booty call. A prevalent theme in society is the female chameleon; perpetrator one sec and victimhood the next (esp as SMV plummets and she hits the wall).

Don't get it twisted. Women are fed this female empowerment, girl power, can do everything, and anything. Feminism, SJWs, and society are cheering women off the ****ing cliff.

In the coming decades, the debunking of stupidity will be revealed. The same goes for "proud single mom" bios on tinder/online dating. The idea of raising some other man's baby. Footing the bills and allocating resources to play house when best years are over.

Gents need to open their eyes. Red pill rage is not the solution. Simply, don't get in your own way but don't get caught up in the cycle.
 

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Would be great if she let it to be known among younger single girls at her work place.
 
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Would be great if she let it to be known among younger single girls at her work place.
Maybe if she froze them at a younger age. She was already past her fertility prime when she froze them. She should of done it much earlier but I guess she didn't have the money then, perhaps.

I don't think stories like this will motivate women to start having babies before they are ready, but it could motivate them to consider freezing their eggs before they are 30 lol. Unlike sperm, there's one set of eggs in each ovary from birth and that's it. Sperm of course is always being created, but even the quality of that decreases after 40, which is why there is usually an age limit on sperm donors.

But they way things seem to be going now, I would not be surprised in the future if young men started freezing their sperm too, because it seems less men and women in their prime baby making years want to make babies.
 

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What makes this so karmaic is that these chicks are 10 years or so younger than myself, and when my contemporaries & I were good catches in our early 30s, they were at a good SMV point in their lives, but had disappeared from the mating market, often times appearing in the alpha harem market.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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those darned ice crystals!
 
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