"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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article: The newest side effect of hair loss — more public anxiety

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So why does one need hair to "feel way more relaxed"? It's like saying I need big muscles to feel good about who I am.

I don't let this stuff define who I am. My internal self confidence carries the day for me.
Does a fat woman should feel confident cause her physical shape doesnt define who she is? what about a broke man?

The thick well shaped hairline makes you more visually pleasant as much as the muscular body you mentioned therefore your chances of achieving a result especially in social settings is higher.
You cant make a first impression twice, you only have 5 seconds after you say hi and even if you have the best personality in the world it wont do much if you didnt reach the minimume threeshold for the other person to actually pay any attention to you.

Confidence comes from both past success and a genuine esteem of your current potential otherwise it's delusion.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just read this... and I agree 100%!
Common knowledge really.

>>Culturally, shaved heads are associated with the military and athletes: symbolizing strength, vitality, and vigor. In addition, men who shave their head are regarded as more agreeable and more dominant. Dominance is a key factor in sexual attraction and authority in the workplace.<<
 
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