article: The Kinds of Monsters I Used to Date

[MatureDJ]

https://www.thecut.com/2018/07/the-kinds-of-monsters-i-used-to-date.html

I had been casually dating several men for about two years. I went on so many first dates, and even the bad ones were delightful stories ... It felt freeing and wonderful to fuuck without attachment ...

... I didn’t know how bad I fuucked up, but I’d know it when it hit me — and motioned to the gun he kept in our closet. He threw my kitten off the couch that night because he was angry at me, and drunk. He was always drunk ... I was a zombie trying different combinations of SSRIs for the first time in my life.

The man I dated after the alcoholic co-worker was a former gang member. I still refer to him as the most conventionally attractive guy I’ve ever dated in my life. He was fascinating ... He had stories and scars — a long, white slash mark from a knife fight on his lower abdomen made my jaw drop the first time I saw him naked.

We had been sleeping together for months. I willingly gave my body to him several nights a week. There was no way it happened. He was hot. He could fuuck anyone.

I know what’s my vagina and what’s my assshole. He shrugged it off. I did too for weeks. He was so hot. I am so homely and fat.

my opinion: It seems the only type of man that got the golden vajaya was "conventionally attractive" bad boys.

 

[greatsnake]

 

[zekko]

The girl gets date raped (he put something in her drink). But she doesn't care that she was date raped. Because the guy had a six pack. But she feels guilty that she doesn't care that she was date raped, so she goes to a therapist and cries. But she still doesn't really care because the guy was hot. It's no wonder it takes 20 years for these women to make allegations. #MeToo

 

[GT40]

Oh but it’s everybody else’s fault. Until the next time she needs it. Then it’s all good and fine again.
But then the low self esteem takes over , the guilt, the shame, and hello sexual assault allegations.