"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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article: The Divorce Gap

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https://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2016/04/the-divorce-gap/480333/

My opinion: Gee, by the anecdotal example given here, one would think that the typical divorce is one in which the husband wants to trade in his dumpy wifey for a newer model - rather than the TRUE typical divorce in which wifey divorces so that she can "find herself", with the divorce-industrial complex facilitating her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Fck I read that **** and I wanna puke...
She was BUSY for a DECADE as a STAY-AT-HOME mom uuuugggghhhhhhh
and btw, around 4 out 5 divorces are initiated by the WOMEN, yeah that's right.
That's why I don't understand why a man would agree to a marriage... women change their mind all the time and this bs is what awaits you. Divorce-rape
 

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From the article....note article is written by a woman. In man bashing pov. She brings up the extremely rare incident of a man disolving the marriage

"There’s a common perception that women siphon off the wealth of their exes and go on to live in comfort. It’s wrong."

It's a proven fact that women do. When judges make statements like "you provided this life style for her, now you have to keep it up."

This is exactlt what they do. They siphon or bleed dry the men to maintain this.
 
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