MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
i have everytthing except good job (working on that tbh)Lol as if women would give a crap about a guy landing a prode on the moon if he is short and bald.
A MIT degree and a nobel prize means sh1t if the guy looks like danny de vito to the average woman nowadays.
I think their concern is not a man education but his income and his ability to grant her a certain life style to couple with the big muscles and the big d1ck...they basically want the full package and nothing less.
If there was an eugenetic program (only working for males) they would all go dr. mengele on that.
Women have bought the lie. Are socially conditioned, crater SMV on degrees and as a booty call. Competition in male domains at the cost of her SMV and fertility is retarded.I´ve never bought this. When women cry there are not enough graduated men to marry, what they really mean is: "There aren´t enough graduated Chad Thundercocks to marry".
Traveling, cool hobbies, and college degrees only increase your SMV if you are already good looking or super succesfull with hot girls. I learned the hard way.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.