article: Single men are having less sex than you think

[MatureDJ]

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news...single-men-are-having-less-sex-than-you-think

 

[lizardking82]

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news...single-men-are-having-less-sex-than-you-think

I have had casual sex and I have had relationship sex. It's different. When you're in a relationship, not only do you have more sex, but is more qualitative as well because you get used to the person and you guys fit just naturally, no need to learn new things all the time, you just know what gets you off and you do it. That has happened to me just once with another girl that was side ***** and still, not that she knew what to do or anything like that, but for some reason, she turned me on a whole lot.

I think this also happens because the longer you bond with someone, the more emotional it becomes, the safer you feel and the safer you feel, the more relaxed you feel and the more explosive the sex and the orgasms become.

 

[AttackFormation]

In the comments section, you can see some hints to what I and others here mention on this site.

#1 Women don't empathize (not sympathize, empathize, look the meaning up) with men:

Actually, whether or not random men are getting laid is not something I give any thought to at all.

#2 Women want to date men who are already pre-selected by social circle or other women (and probably fame, but that's not relevant to us here):

back when I was a single gal, I was not interested in dating strangers, let alone being intimate with them.

#3 Women are either ignorant of (see point #1) and/or don't mind inequality when it benefits them:

More like his profile was off-putting. I guess he got a bit too ****y (no pun intended) in thinking his looks could make up for a profile in which he makes sex out to be a transaction and an experiment, all rolled up into one.

(Ignoring that a woman with the exact same profile but half as good looking as that dude would be flooded with messages)

 

[bigneil]

This article provides no statistics and cites no studies.

It sounds like a blog from a whiny AFC.

 

[Trump]

I think this also happens because the longer you bond with someone, the more emotional it becomes, the safer you feel and the safer you feel, the more relaxed you feel and the more explosive the sex and the orgasms become.

I don't know about that bro. It sounds like you are getting into Disney territory here. Bonding? Emotions? This stuff is for the woman. She thinks you have bonded to her she will destroy you when she wants.

Imagine if you could have sex with a different girl every week. Wouldn't that be more fun than sticking with one woman for the rest of your life?

 

[lizardking82]

I don't know about that bro. It sounds like you are getting into Disney territory here. Bonding? Emotions? This stuff is for the woman. She thinks you have bonded to her she will destroy you when she wants.

Imagine if you could have sex with a different girl every week. Wouldn't that be more fun than sticking with one woman for the rest of your life?

Actually, now that you asked, I will tell you this: I had a main girl until about a couple of months ago. The sex I had with her was absolutely terrific and one of the reasons for that was the emotional connection we had. I had other plates and was spinning them all the time, but I really think that when you connect with someone on a deeper level where you share plans, make jokes, have lunches and do other fun activities than just "let's ****", the sex follows and becomes better as well.

I think it would be a lot of fun and I have tried having sex with my ex-girl twice a week in general plus sex with a new girl once in 2-3 weeks and I still would not swoop the sex with her for most of those girls. Of course there were girls with which it was ****in' hot and cannot deny that, but with my ex, for example, I used to come inside everytime, special feeling, if you ask me about it and a feeling you can hardly find with casual sex.

No Disney territory with love forever and all that, I am past that now LOL, but I definitely think being able to just sit with someone you love after you just had sex, to just sit with them in bed, making jokes and everything, is an experience you either live "halfed" with casual sex or you don't get to live at all.

 

[Alvafe]

I don't know about that bro. It sounds like you are getting into Disney territory here. Bonding? Emotions? This stuff is for the woman. She thinks you have bonded to her she will destroy you when she wants.

Imagine if you could have sex with a different girl every week. Wouldn't that be more fun than sticking with one woman for the rest of your life?

relative each person is diferent, some prefer liking the person others anything he find hot will do, sure you could want a diferent girl each week, but in the end its all about the same thing, and serious after sometime it get tiresome to meet new woman....

 

[Who Dares Win]

In the comments section, you can see some hints to what I and others here mention on this site.

#1 Women don't empathize (not sympathize, empathize, look the meaning up) with men:



#2 Women want to date men who are already pre-selected by social circle or other women (and probably fame, but that's not relevant to us here):



#3 Women are either ignorant of (see point #1) and/or don't mind inequality when it benefits them:

(Ignoring that a woman with the exact same profile but half as good looking as that dude would be flooded with messages)

Well said, had the same idea while reading those women, not that I care either about what they believe.

We should thank them at least to be honest, hopefully guys will bother to pay attention to what they write and act accordingly.

Whoever expect empathy or tolerance from women is as clever as the guy who buries coins expecting the money tree to grow and make him rich.