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Why Men Send Obscene OkCupid Messages
Many women say they've received harassing or offensive messages on online-dating sites. Will airing the obscene exchanges publicly help?
Many women say they've received harassing or offensive messages on online-dating sites. Will airing the obscene exchanges publicly help?
One day recently, Alexandra Tweten was browsing Facebook when a woman she knew posted a screenshot of a recent exchange she’d had on OkCupid.
“I want to message you, but I’m afraid,” the man said. The woman didn't respond for 12 hours, after which the man followed up with one word:
"*******."
my opinion: This man had lost his frame.Tweten posted an aggressive note she had recently received from a man who had sent her the same OkCupid line three times in the course of a month, asking her if she’d like to chat. After ignoring it repeatedly, Tweten finally wrote back, “No.”
His response: “WHY THE **** NOT? If you weren’t interested, you shouldn’t have ****ing replied at all! WTF!”
my opinion:Men, too, have grumbled online about the fact that all their hours spent browsing photos, writing love notes, and hitting send aren’t “paying off.” Maybe some think they have to send outlandish messages in order to get noticed at all.
“Who wants to expend all of that emotional energy only to get kicked in the metaphorical nuts by that empty inbox every time you log in?” wrote a Texas “dating coach” named Harris O’Malley. “Why the hell won’t people write back?”
“Hi Isabel ... would you be up for a nice toe sucking foot worship," Wood read. “You know your beauty deserves a five and your mouth deserves a ! so I granted you a three which is ... for fat women who wear makeup.” “Is your hole clean or do I need body armor to make entry?” “You ever watch a guy jack off before?” ... and so on.
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